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The Best Laid Plans
July 5, 2018 I asked my love of 40 years to formally accept this dynamic and be my Dom, partner,and soulmate. He accepted with much love and enthusiasm. But unlike most ways this could go, we joined the couples chat LOL. Needless to say that was the last thing on my mind. But I willingly joined him. After he told me that by attending the chat before we had together time was his way of telling me he was serious about this and would do his best to learn and be the best. How could I be upset with that. WOW Now the real story is how we got there. I had planned on doing it Saturday night in the tree house we rented for our 40th anniversary ( Sat night). I bought him a bracelet and had it inscribed with “two souls one heart” and had an outfit (a bra and panties) to die for picked out. Well being who I am, I started getting antsy and anxious. On Tuesday I got a spanking from him to ground me (it didn’t work). by Wednesday we had a dull and blah 4th. He knew something was wrong and I couldn’t tell him.So now I was anxious because of trust and the surprise. So I talked to Belle and LK, I was hoping to get past my nerves but you know I couldn’t. So I decided not to ruin our trip and do it Thursday and of course LK was right and he was so willing and receptive. I just had to realize that I am who I am with all my anxieties and it was really about us as a couple and it didn’t matter where or what it just needed to be said. In fact I started with a letter but knowing me well made me read it to him. I did LK and it was fine through all the emotion. In fact he took the letter and the bracelet with him on this latest business trip. I apologize this is so long but I did learn all the planning in the world that goes sideways can’t ruin a beautiful moment Quinn
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8 Replies
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Guinevere, this is so beautiful! Congratulations on taking such a huge step and on a fabulous D/s-M future.
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Guin,
Thank you for sharing your Formal Acceptance with us! It’s a huge step but this journey is so wonderful! Even with all the planning on some things they just dont go the way we want them to but they do happen when they are suppose to. Grey has always told me that everything happens for a reason (which I believe is a quote from someone, I just dont know who lol) so maybe you were not suppose t ask on Saturday the night of your 40th Anniversary, It happened on a night that would have its own anniversary date! It will be a night that you remember for ever! 🙂
Best Wishes,
Luna -
Guine! BRAVO! Like I said FA’s are not perfect and they can be messy and slobbery and all that you did not imagine. But, it doesn’t change that you got on your knees asked for what you desired.
CONGRATS! YIPEE!
lk
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Dear Guin,
Congratulations! You did it. You are off to a great start on your journey! You have an amazing Dom in Mr. Sky. I am so very proud of your progress. Enjoy your new life as a submissive.
Best regards,
Belle -
Thank you, Guin for sharing! Congratulations! Reading your beautiful story gave me the mini-boost of confidence to move forward with my own FA.
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Lttleone,
We cant wait to hear about your FA!! It truly is an amazing experience! 🙂
Best Wishes,
Luna
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Congrats Guin!!! I am so proud of you. I just completed FA on July 6th. It is wonderful thing!! I am very happy for you.
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Guine,
I love that thru all the worry and anxiety, your Sir was exactly what you needed him to be and you received your FA! I am so glad that you shared your story with us, showing other subbies that it doesn’t have to be perfect. It doesn’t have to go as planned. That it is more important that it comes from the heart and when the time is right. Congratulations on this step in your journey and we are so happy to have you as part of our community!
Much Love,
Para
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