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Tantric Sex
LK’s post on sexual energy a while back got me thinking about tantric sex. I have just now gotten around to exploring some information on the topic and I was immediately struck by how much overlap there is between sex in a D/s marriage and tantric sex. For instance, I think when we truly submit to our HusDoms we are able to “get out of our heads” and be way more present in the moment. I now know that is a major focus of tantra – being present and fully aware of the moment. I think, too, that submission emphasizes the feminine nature and dominance emphasizes the masculine nature, meaning that when the two work well together there is a kind of sexual merging that may not otherwise happen in vanilla sex. Again, that is an idea behind tantric sex as well. Is subspace similar to the high that couples reach with tantra? If so, that means Doms can experience it, too. I want to learn more about other submissives’ experiences with tantra. How does a couple combine the calmer, more relaxed nature of tantric sex with the exciting and intense nature of D/s-M sex? Are there practical methods and ways to really channel our sexual energy so that both of us reach the equivalent of subspace and at the same time? While I’ve just started my search for information, it seems that these two paths – tantric sex and D/s-M sex – could combine to create something spectacular.
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Lelle,
What an interesting post! We have not explored Tantric sex but it is very intriguing. I have heard about Domspace but have not done a lot of research. I do feel like being “present” is something that D|s has brought to our marriage, not just during sex but in our everyday life. I hope you follow up this post with things that you learn in your research!
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