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Sub-space | Sub fever | Sub drop
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Oh, Lt, thank you so much for writing this post. Sir and I have been exploring our D/s in new ways this past week, and I have felt emotionally out of control since an intense scene on Friday where Sir spanked me for the first time. We have discussed subdrop, etc. but I’m just starting to realize how and for how long it affects me. I sent him your post, and I asked him if we can discuss it tonight. I’ll post again letting you know how it goes. Thank you again, Lt.
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I’m happy it helped you understand what was happening with your emotional roller coaster. I do hope your Sir liked it also.
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Thank you for this post! It is a such a good reminder of what we feel, things that can happen. I had intense sub-space this past weekend and I am not complaining in any way. I was able to let go so fully – it was an intense spanking/paddling/crop scene while blindfolded, cuffed and stretched standing up, latched onto a hook by my hands in our room. I was a puddle of raw heated emotions and fully was able to let go. Afterwards, we laid together in bed for so long holding each other, not able to let each other go.
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Your welcome and it sounds like you had a subtastic scene lady. 🙂
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I can’t begin to thank you enough for this post! VERY informative and helpful at this time in my D/s. I believe I am dealing with a form of sub frenzy! Nonetheless, I am truly thankful for the wealth of knowledge here. Thank you again LT!!!! xoxoxoxo
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Welcome JR and now that you know your emotions are a reaction to D/s it gets easier each time because you learn how to adjust and what you need to do to feel better.
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Thank you so much for this post! So much information!! All new Subbies need to read this post!
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Your welcome HMS and I agree all new subs should read this and they would understand the feelings they are having at times and why
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Lt, this can be a very scary thing …..if you don’t know. I still have it …but better prepared, understand….have things in place to help me …..I woul love to have a chat on this. Hearts Curvey
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Happy it helped you Curvey ♥
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Thank you so much for this post! We are fairly new at D/s, although elements have been in the marriage all along. The last few weekends have been really intense, since he is about to deploy, and then he has to leave during the week. And I am experiencing everything you mentioned about sub frenzy and sub drop. But now at least I know I’m not going crazy! I have shared this with my Sir so that he has a better understanding of what I’m going through. So glad I found this site! Everything I read has been helpful!
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Your welcome Bethsub531 ♥
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Great post, it has given me a lot to think about. Does anyone ever fear becoming addicted to all the emotions. Like you would a drug. I can be very OCD and have an addictive personality it is something I’ve always known about myself and have been careful about any kind of drug or alcohol use. Thanks for taking the time to post. Batty
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Glad you liked it Batty! I can’t speak for anyone but myself but emotions change each and every time as you grow in your journey to me they are not addictive but a normal response.
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Great post!
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Thank you RRsub. ♥
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Wonderful post thank you. I have been in this D/s relationship for about 18months and never realised before that I was so submissive and that I NEED this… but the intensity of this relationship and the NEED I have for Sir to hold me, touch me, text me… the intensity seems ridiculous for a middle aged woman. It is so reassuring to know that I am normal and that my emotions and the intensity of our relationship is common in this community. I am also just so so happy to be reading in the context of committed long term relationships and marriages… there is sooo much information out there about sex.. but its the dynamic between us when we are NOT in the bedroom that I often struggle the most with and it is hard to talk to my vanilla friends
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I have a question about something that happened to me last night.
I had been asleep on the sofa and my Sir decided it was time for bed, so I sleepily went up. We had had sex without “conclusion” earlier in the night and He wanted me again. I wanted it too, and it was urgent and passionate. I came up really quickly as it was very intense, but pretty soon I started to feel nauseous and had to stop. After we stopped it subsided, so my question is: could this have been due to my sudden change of state? And has anyone heard of or experienced this before? -
HWTOY,
I have not had this happen. …. listen to your body 😉 Ha it happened again ?
Sub-Port ,
Curvey
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