Subspace

[Unknown Member]

Really? I’m the first to post? LOLOL….I didn’t even know what this WAS until a few months ago, but I kept trying to describe this floaty, out of body, experience to Mr. Wolf. He was fascinated, and thrilled he could get me there, but clearly didn’t “get it”. I would tell him, “when you do this to me” it absolutely sends me into outerspace. So he would prolong whatever it was or add to it. Now, he has quite a repertoire to pull from. For me, it is his voice in my ear, his hands pinching, pulling, teasing, and currently, he restrains me, bites my ear and gives me instructions ( don’t move, don’t come until I tell you, open up for me, etc” and before I know it, I am “there” wherever “there” is.

[Kaninchen]

Check out my entry..
LK

[fifibubu]

I think Subspace is really hard to explain as it feels different for everyone. And everyone describes it differently. I had subspace once, I think. I was so high, that any pain I felt during subspace was at half it’s actual intensity. It was hard to speak as well in subspace. I could only speak one word and that was it. The rest of the sentence that I tried to say did not get past my mouth.

At the end when I was coming down, I was feeling so happy and floaty.

[Kaninchen]

Thank you for sub-porting my forum and web-site Zwith!
I really appreciate your comments!
Please keep going asking questions… HUGS!

LK

[Kaninchen]

I listed the definition of sub-space from Wiki-pedia..

Remember evryone’s experiences are different… Don’t judge your experiences from this definition… Just take from it, some of the information and apply it where it fits… Best Wishes…

If you want to discuss sub-space more intimately please email me at LK@subMrs.com

LK

*****Subspace (also sub space, flying, or floating), in the context of a BDSM scene, is a psychological state that can sometimes be entered by the person bottoming in the scene.
Subspace is a term used to describe the state that the bottom’s (or submissive’s) mind and body is in during a deeply involved play scene. Many types of BDSM play invoke strong physical responses. The psychological aspect of BDSM also causes many bottoms to mentally separate themselves from their environment as they process the experience. Deep subspace is often characterized as a state of deep recession and incoherence. Deep subspace may also cause a danger in newer submissives who are unfamiliar with the experience, and require the dominant to keep a careful watch to ensure their partner isn’t in danger. Most submissives require aftercare while returning from subspace.

Physiological processes[edit]

During the scene, the intense experiences of both pain and pleasure trigger a sympathetic nervous system response, which causes a release of epinephrine from the suprarenal glands, as well as a dump of endorphins and enkephalins.[citation needed] These natural chemicals, part of the fight or flight response, produce the same effect as a morphine-like drug, increasing the pain tolerance of the submissive as the scene becomes more intense.[citation needed] Since the increase of hormones and chemicals produces a sort of trance-like state, the submissive starts to feel out-of-body, detached from reality, and as the high comes down, and the parasympathetic nervous system kicks in, a deep exhaustion, as well as incoherence. Many submissives, upon reaching a height of subspace, will lose all sensation of pain, as any stimulus causes the period to prolong.

[Unknown Member]

Sub space is a sacred head space where you connect with your Dom by immense amount of physical pain. It’s a state where the submissive mind and body is floating or flying..It’s a state of deep recession and incoherence. But to reach this place you must have totally trust in your Dom. In my D/s relationship there is very special place I enter into where I may hallucinate and during this this period I may not be capable of making a rational decision about my safety or well being. My Dom is who I give myself over too..he will give me aftercare and watch over me if my state of mind doesn’t respond to his standards.
Roadrunner♥

[messylittlemama]

Thank you for sharing your experiences and descriptions of sunspace, ladies. I have never experienced it myself, and have been very curious. I know that it will be a while before I get there, but I find it useful to understand all the different ways that subs enter it and how it feels.

[messylittlemama]

*subspace

[sassymagpie]

My Sir has gotten me to subspace on several occasions. It feels like you have no control of your body. I can hear what is going on around me, but can talk or move. Pain no longer hurts. He says He can tell when I’ve gone over. I react different to things that should hurt, I can’t hold up my own body anymore, and I no longer answer Him when he talks to me. It is the best feeling.

[Unknown Member]

LK, and LT you both explained very much what it was like for me. I had total out of body experience. I had several hallucinations that I can remember. When I saw my Master from above he was colored lights of white purple green and blue. I was saw many other things but still haven’t been able to remember all of them. Master said that he had never seen anything like it. When the scene was over he said more magic happened. I had un-controlable laughter,( my sides hurt for two days from the laughter lol) tons and tons of tears (not all sad only some) so many tears my eye lids are still peeling from all the tears and the day after the corners of my eyes burned like fire. It took me a good two days to really snap out of it. I felt happy and sad all at once and then just foggy, followed by total clarity. It also left me with tons and tons of new feelings I’d never really been able to grasp. For me it was like a “ahhhh” factor so much about myself I wasn’t able to really talk about or able to process on my own. I feel that sub-space even more so allowed me to drop bigger walls I’d build around myself. It was the most therapeutic experience I have ever had. For me I believe that without the sub-space trip last weekend so many things about myself my not have come to light so fast. From this experience Master Grey as been able to better understand my thinking, my flaws, my dreams and most of all my deep seeded love for him. This gave him insight on things I needed to work on to help myself emotionally. Some of the after emotions were just that emotions with no place but many that followed after the initial come down is when I began to really let go of the surge of emotions I had been bottling up for a life time. This is what I experienced from my first and not last “trip to the moon”.
Thank you Master for giving me wings, and teaching me to love myself as much as … I love you!