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Submissive Mindset
How can a submissive keep a mindset or keep mindful during the day?
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Sir ᏩᏯ and I were talking today about how he needs me to go slower, so he can catch up. Lingering subfrenzie maybe? Or maybe he’s just moving slower than me. So I was thinking, if this was schoolwork, and I was dealing with a student that was moving too quickly, I’d find some (busy)work that reinforced the consept but allowed the student to do this work unsupervised. Does anyone have things they do that keep them in the submissive mindest while not requiring their Sir to check in or participate? I tried journaling and thought he could just read it when he had time, but that didn’t work either, I can journal 10 times as fast as he can read. Hehehe! I’m thinking there are a lot of us that have this issue.
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I have problems with that also. I have done a few rituals to help. When i come home from work i go to his office and kneel by him until he asks about my day and I ask about his. I always make his tea, I always make dinner. That helps
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I have a few routines that I do when Sir ᏩᏯ is home but they involve him, so doing them alone doesn’t make sense. I DID think maybe he could make me a voice memo message for morning and bedtime along with when I’m having a bad day for my illness and a bad day for just feeling lost without him, then I can go kneel at my spot in the bedroom and listen, and have a moment to myself.
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W/we have a few rituals during the work day. i have 4 check ins i must do. they can be as simple as “hi, i’m home” (from dropping Him at the car pool spot) to my final one when i leave my office “i’m leaving now, i have this stop to make and then i’ll be to You. is there anything You need from me before i get there?” it’s 4 times during my day when i’m mindful of just who He is, i need to stay mindful of the time, so i don’t miss the times for the text. i’m looking forward to seeing ideas from others.
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Hey all,
For me it’s photos of C. The lock screen of my phone is a selfie she sent me, so every time I pick it up I’m looking at her. Also the image I assigned to her phone number is a particularly domme-y one (all G rated, just something in her expression) so every time she calls that pops up and immediately puts me in a submissive mindset as I answer. I used to have the background on my computer cycle through pics of her, but that was too distracting to get work done. Now though when I leave the office I always open up a photo of her on the screen, so in the morning when I get there and move the mouse to wake up my computer I’m looking at her.
When C travels for work she usually sends me a selfie at some point. When she’s working from home the first thing I do when I get home is go up to her office and kneel and chat for a bit before I go down and start dinner.
Her loyal subject,
B
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Those are some good ideas! Molly, Sir ᏩᏯ used to call me in the mornings on his way to his job site and leave me a message, at lunch, then again at night. I can’t really call him as easily because of his work, but I can talk to him about it today. Thanks for the idea! B, a pic on my lock screen that reminds ME that I belong to him would be great! Thanks! 🙂
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We recently added a new ritual to start my day off in the right mind set. I get up early and go to work before Sir. So while I make my breakfast I make a breakfast parfait for Sir and put it in the fridge. I finish my coffee and set all his up so he just has to push the button. It starts my morning in a submissive mind set, doing for my Sir. Even when I’m rushing and dont want to do it (it happens sometimes) getting it done and ready for him makes me feel better puts my thoughts in the right place. I know he will have his breakfast and coffee when he is ready for it and know he is loved.
Jsbunny
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