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Stop Comparing and Focus on Your Journey
Stop comparing where you’re at with where everyone else is. It doesn’t move you farther ahead, improve your situation, or help you find peace and that connection you want with your partner. It just feeds your desire in sadness, fuels your feelings of inadequacy, and ultimately, it keeps you stuck from staying positive. The reality is that there is no one correct path in life. Everyone has their own unique journey. A path that’s right for someone else won’t necessarily be a path that’s right for you and that’s okay. Your journey isn’t right or wrong, or good or bad. Its just different. Your life isn’t meant to look like anyone else’s because you aren’t like anyone else. Your a person all of your own with a unique set of goals, obstacles, dreams and needs. Stop comparing and start thinking what you need to do to live the life you want and need. You may not ended up where you intended to be. But trust, for once, that you have ended up where you need to be at that moment. Trust that you are in the right place at the right time for a reason and have trust that with patience and faith in yourself and in your journey. So that you will learn from mistakes and learn from each other and openly communicate with honesty and trust and respect for each other. Where you want your journey to go and what each of you need to do to accomplish it. If you want something badly enough in life it comes with hard work. Learning how to be a (Dom/sub) isn’t easy for everyone but with patience and time you will find that in the end “IT WILL BE WELL WORTH THE WAIT.”
♥ Lts ♥
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Great reminder. Our journey got so much easier when we accepted that everyone’s journey and relationship is different. Just as you said…also My Sir and I just had a discussion about the pics on tumbler and how most are staged with models and such. Thanks for the post.
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Your very welcome SirsDarling, We all tend to compare when we start this journey because we do focus on others. When we should focus on the correct steps and move forward even if it is at a slower pace. Remember..it was the turtle that won the race over the hare. Lol! Yes most of the pics you see out there are staged.
Lt♥
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Thanks for this LT. The reminder is helpful. In the beginning I wanted every aspect of my D/s perfect (still kind of do but I know it’s unrealistic). Now, we just try to take our journey day by day and learn from other’s examples, and make our own path.
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SSB your welcome lady, Your D/s can be perfect…the way it fits you and your Sir. It only gets better with time and patience and experience.
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Such a PERFECT post LT couldn’t have been said any better. Thank you for your wonderful advise. The journey will be long and very worth the wait. The journey as a married couple was beautiful and can only image how much more it will be now. Everyone is different, inside and out as people and as couples. Every trip that is taking in life has something different to see along the way. That is what makes life so great that we are all “unique” and if we were all the same what a boarding ride through life that would be. Plus, what on earth would we chat about here if all of our journey’s were the same! Hugs to you LT and your thoughtful words. Beautiful
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Thanks beautiful for your comment, It happens to be a lesson we all learn in life some sooner, some later in our vanilla side and our D/s side. I wanted to be the roadrunner when Sir and I started our journey, and it was Sir who said we would take it slow and do it our way. Sir was right as usually and it couldn’t have been more perfect and logical, some of the steps came easy and some of the steps were a bit harder. You are correct that each of us is unique in our own way…. but with patience, trust, communication, understanding and total commitment between you and your partner… your journey can be beautiful, amazing and complete. A ride so powerful between you both that you can not explain it to others, unless they have taken it themselves. All we need to understand is that we are the only ones that can stop it from taking off or crashing before it has a chance to go down the tracks…. to a magical place we both can journey to and become ONE. OMG! No chatting… we all would be bored to death! Lol! HUGS! to you Beautiful and a long healthy D/s journey to you and MG.
Lt♥
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