• New submissive Introduction

  Slow and steady wins the race

  Posted by Unknown Member on at

  Hi everyone. I’ve introduced myself in the “Introductions” thread so I won’t repeat it here.

  “Grace before speed” and “patience” is something I’ve heard in reference to transitioning from vanilla to D|s-M, so I’m playing the long game. I’ve made encouraging steps this month and wanted to share.

  May Progress:
  -Introduced concept of D|s-M dynamic to husband. Asked for a bedroom-only dynamic. He is open and considering, with some reservations.
  -We did our “yes, no, maybe” lists together
  -Established a full-stop safeword
  -Played with titles a bit. So far he’s Captain, I’m either Toy or Cherry.
  -Had a few playtimes, mixed in with other more vanilla times
  -I arranged one roleplay scene, complete with a costume for me
  -I established a WhatsApp line for us to communicate privately (end to end encryption).
  -Played him a story from Kiss Me Quick’s Podcast (Two Doms for Dinner). It gave him an idea of how a gentleman Dominant speaks/interacts with a Submissive.

  On my own:
  -Getting back into an exercise program, starting with one tiny habit at a time. Some stretching, some kettlebell swings, body weight exercises.
  -Daily breast massage routine from Kim Anami’s YouTube video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lLXZoBfm39c

  That’s it for now. Feel free to chime in with your own small steps. I might update the thread with June progress next month.

  Best wishes!

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