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Should I be collared by my Dom
Hello I’m really new to this me and my wife have been doing this for a little over a month I’ve been really enjoying it and so has my wife I’ve noticed each day I become more and more submissive witch I love and she really becomes more dominate I have already been put in male chastity but should I be collared by my Dom any help would be great thank you
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Hi Sub16 and welcome! Sounds like you and your wife have burst out of the starting gate, congrats! My best advice is to take in as much information about D/s as you can from good sources that aren’t full of fantasy or unsafe/unsavory people and advice. You’ll likely find that this is a pretty safe source and full of real married couples sharing similar journeys.
As far as collaring goes, only you and your wife can really determine when or if that is appropriate for you. Talk about it with her and let her set the tone and pace on that. For most in the D/s community, collaring is kind of a big deal and carries some meaning and significance. Not unlike a wedding ring actually but, nothing wrong whatsoever with a collar for you if that is what she wants.
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Thank you very much pk/TBK your advice is very much appreciated I would love for her my Dom to collar me I will definitely talk to my Dom about it I think my Dom would love it to again thank you and any other advice would be greatly appreciated
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Hi Sub16,I am Lady. I see that it has been a while since you posted this, but i wanted to respond. I do love to be collared, it really puts me a deep in the submissive mind set. There are a lot of different collars out there, i started with a thin collar with three rings on it ( on the left right and front). This provided multiple options for leashes and using strap to link my wrist to it.
I enjoy being immobilized, so Sir bout me a posture collar ( one of my favorites ). This collar is very wide and covers my entire neck, and is there is a small cut out that goes under my chin. The cut out a a key feature to its somewhat comfort, allowing it to fit snugly around my neck. When putting it on i found that i have to extend my neck a little. This collar is very restrictive, you cannot move you head left, right or up or down. It took time before i was able to wear the collar for longer periods. I had to slowly increase the time i wore it, wearing it too long at first can cause some strain on your neck. After taking it off, my Sir will rub my neck to relax my muscles a bit. This can be incorporated into play, and can be quite arousing.
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