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Rituals. The More
For a little over a year now König and I have had a collaring ritual in place. It’s something we have refused to let go but at the same time fail at it often. Vanilla happens more than we would like, but we have chosen to keep moving forward. The other day I was txting sweet things to my HusDom. Expressing the gratitude for TTWD and what it means to me. I was describing how I viewed our collaring ritual. When König places my play collar around my neck it takes me back to our wedding day, our vows of for better or worse. It’s a daily reminder of the promises we have made to each other and ourselves. D/s-M has created opportunities for us to continue to renew our dedication to each other. That is very special to me because it was something I always worried about. Get married have kids and forget about your marriage until kids are gone. That thought terrified me! I wanted to fall in love everyday. I wanted Prince Charming. My fairytale. With D/s-M we have all of that! We are reminded to find the light in the little things. I love the feelings of the power exchange and how it clearly it defines expectations and our roles to each other. Since sharing this thought with König I could feel a change in TTWD. Then today he shared with me how he hasn’t been able to stop thinking about it. How giving a deeper meaning to our collaring ritual has brought to the surface a deeper need for it. The More. Last night I was fatigued and comfy in my pjs but feeling his need to see me on knees fed my submission changing my mindset in a matter of seconds to a drive to serve. I have let go of the reins and he is driving this carriage. That has me glowing with pride for my HusDom and the Dom he has become. 2 years in and we have barely scratched the surface of what D/s-M will bring to our marriage. I am so lucky to have a partner that wants that magic as much as I do. Our life together is a constant reminder that dreams do come true.
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Kleine,
That is a wonderful testimony! You and your Sir are truly blessed to have found this dynamic so early in your marriage. What a gift you have given each other! -
Thank you for sharing this kleine. It’s very inspiring. All the warm fuzzies from reading this.💓
Jsbunny
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