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REsponse to blog, Your body is your tool
After reading that blog I decided to have Sir do a photography session with me as the subject. I wanted to see what he sees when he looks at me. To know what turns him on about me as his submissive. I surprised him with getting into a new outfit and I laid all my outfits and lingerie for him to choose from. I gave him my good camera and let him sculpt me and show me how to look for him. It was a pretty eye opening experience. Of course it led to some more racier pictures but it was a lot of fun. And uncomfortable at the same time. I was most surprised after when we were looking at the pictures and Sir was telling which ones were keepers or to be tossed. He wasn’t really looking at the pose, or the clothing, he was focused on my face. The expressions. While I was looking at the lumps and bumps and wrinkles, he was looking for the smile, or the look of hunger (which he instigated of course). He favorites were often just head shots, usually with a look of pleasure. I am always so focused on having or not having the perfect body or the clothing just right, but he just wants me, and me with a smile and some added lust on my face. Very eye opening indeed. I think our favorite outfit, was just one of his button down shirts! Although he is usually partial to the garters. I am so glad that I did this. I encourage others to try it too. A lot can be learned for sure. I’ve kept the SD card in a safe place to remind me of what I learned this weekend.
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1st: BEAUTIFUL picture! Classy and elegant with a hint of hot mama, lol!
2nd: yes! We are our own worst critic and seeing ourselves through our Sir’s eyes can be an amazingly humble experience. Good job lady…being vulnerable is hard and finding your sexy can be harder. I am inspired by your courage in this post!
Smooches,
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You are stunning!!!! Your post is absolutely beautiful and so inspiring.
I hate looking at myself even in vacation photos. I cannot imagine a lingerie shoot with my Sir. He will often stand behind me and make me stare at myself in the mirror while he rubs on me. This can be really uncomfortable. Or he loves to play with the lights really bright. It is clear that we are very hard on ourselves and do not see what they see. We do need to embrace our beauty in any form and own it.
Thanks for this post! I’m making this a 2018 personal evolution.
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Thanks for the post! We are all our own worst critics. A few years ago Wolf and I did a bible study on Song of Solomon and it was so helpful in so many ways. The author of the study had questions for each spouse and one of them for the women was how do you react when your husband compliments your body, do you really believe him? She went on to point out that when we did not believe our husbands we were calling him a liar. Now Wolf is a lot of things but he is not a liar of any sort, ever. So I had a choice to make, believe my husband when he told me I was beautiful or think of him as a liar. That choice was easy, now all I had to do was convince myself!
I have found being naked a lot actually helps and actually listening to what my dear, wonderful Wolf actually says about my body and believing him.
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