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Resources for Retro Marriage
Hi subbies, I’m interested in exploring retro-style marriage lately. We’ve played with Master/slave too, and still have fun with that. But I am totally drawn to vintage homemaking and traditional gender roles in marriage. Have you run across any good resources for this sort of thing, or do you have rituals that you’re incorporating into your marriage? Bottom line, no matter what my husband is the boss – the captain of our ship, if you will 😉 But something about the retro marriage stuff seems really hot to me; maybe because you can “play” in front of anyone and it seems completely innocent, perhaps even sweet. For example, my husband has started opening the car door for me. Totally hot 🙂 Any other ideas? What are you guys doing out there?
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Yesterday Sir made an effort to open doors for me, and I loved it. It is not something that comes as a natural thought to him, so when he does it I know it is an intentional act to take care of me and encourage my submission. When seating me in the car, before he closes the door, he always says, “Are you in? Safe? Sound? Comfy? Cozy? Do you love me?” I always grin and answer, “Yes, Sir!” Its kind of been a tradition since we started dating years ago. It’s a fun, silly little thing we did, and I love that he has started doing it again since we have renewed our D/s M relationship.
I guess we have been exploring traditional marriage roles, though they kind of come naturally. Yesterday we had a party at our house. I would naturally cook and clean and prepare, welcomecour guests and serve them, but it was extra special fun to know that I was doing all of that with the lacey bra and panties he had asked me to wear under my clothes, and the house-wifey apron over my clothes that he had also asked me to wear. I had no idea he had an interest in seeing me in an apron! We were cooking tamales all day with friends, so it made perfect sense to them that I was wearing one, but it was such a turn-on to know that my HusDom had commanded it. He grabbed me by the back of the neck and kissed me every chance he got throughout the day. Every time I filled his coffee or served him food at the party, I could just feel the heat in his gaze sweeping over my apron. He said later that night that it was such a turn on to him to know that I was dressed in the slutty black lace under my clothes, but in a sweet, domestic apron on top…so hot!
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I do Web searches for 1950’s home economics and find tons of links to how it was done back then! My Sir and I very much love the 1950’s traditional values and take on marriage. I do tons of research just because it’s fun. I won’t post links because that’s against the site terms of service, but if you type in “1950’s home economics textbook” into your favorite search engine you’ll get tons of links to articles taken from vintage homemaker texts.
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I had not thought of that bayonettaK! Thanks for the great idea 🙂
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