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Reset Spankings
How often is too often for the need to be reset? Is there a limit or should it just be done when it has to?
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I think this is different for every D/s couple. Personally I get spanked almost everyday, its helps keep me on track. That being said lots of those spankings are just for fun. About once a week Sir dials up the intensity to a point where I start to really loss myself in the spanking or else I tend to get bratty and mouthy. Doing this generally keeps me from being punished for most respect type offensives and keeps me “in line” and at his feet where is long to be.
I hope this helps answer your question.
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We don’t have a formalized protocol for reset spankings, but my Sir travels a great deal and likes to give me what He calls “claiming spankings.” He’s reminding me I am His and only His before or after a trip. It’s not every trip, but whenever He feels I need it. I suspect it’s very similar in nature to a reset spanking. The one thing we have found is that if He gives me one too close to Him leaving town, I struggle with sub-drop more intensely – particularly if He’s gone on a longer trip. Not sure if that helps answer it or not, and I’m sure ours will change as time goes on.
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My Daddy used to give me daily maintenance spankings but we don’t anymore. I MISS THEM. It is such a nice way to connect. I never thought of them as reset spankings although when either of us gets distance and needs reset spanking is a sure way to go. I find his hand on me the best medicine ever. For me I require reset when i feel lost or distant from Sir.
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Whenever Beloved feels the need to do so or can tell that I am falling off track. There’s no protocol – He’s just proactive.
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