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Porn…
Porn and what it does for me. About 5 years ago I found a site called kink.com that caught My Master and I’s attention. Specifically “Sex and Submission” and the “Training of O”. Back then My Master and I were into Kinky sex but not in a D/s or M/s role. Some of the things I saw on there made me nervous at first because there were things on there that neither one of us had tried or even thought about. When we first watched them I thought some of these girls could actually be being abused, because I couldn’t image truly enjoying some of the things I saw. When we first watched it we DID NOT watch the pre or post interviews with the subs. HUGE mistake! Once we started watching the pre and post interviews I was amazed to see these girls so happy, satisfied, and comfortable with the entire scene.
My Master and I had tried to watch “regular porn” threw the years and had never found any satisfaction from it. After we found these sites and I understood how much fun this type of sex was for these girls it helped me to break down my walls so that I could truly try new things that I had thought were taboo or things that would “make me a bad person”. I used to think of porn as something for horny teenagers or lonely men but once we found these sites I realized just how wrong I was.
Have any of you other Ladies watched any type of porn for inspiration, or enjoyment? If so please share. If not and your interested I would highly recommend either of the two sites I mentioned above.
I looked at these sites almost like watching a documentary or as a teaching tool. Maybe if anyone is looking for some inspiration for the bedroom then I recommend you and your Dom check it out.
Have a sub-tactic day!
Masters Beautiful
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SO After reading this post I starting using porn as a learning tool. I have to say in my pre D/s-M days BDSM porn scared me and some of it still does. My Sir and I have started using it as more of an educational tool now though, talking about what we see and what we like and don’t like. Certainly not a way I had ever thought of watching porn prior to D/s. We will watch things separately and we will come back and show each other and discuss what we have watched, both good and bad. Of course I take this all with a grain of salt, I will never be a professional(nor do I aspire to be) but it does give some good “inspirational”(Can you say that about porn? LOL)ideas.
Thanks for bringing this up Beautiful, not sure I would have thought to use porn like this prior to reading your post.
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Schatzi, Thanks you for reading my post and I’m so glad it helped for you and your Sir. It is amazing what we can learn if we just look at things dif. There have been so many things I have learned watching porn as a learning tool instead of just watching porn though now I do like both lol. But, in this case my mind was so closed off from what I may or may not like that I just said no to it all for a long time. Once I started looking at it in a new light it was amazing to see how much my mind opened to new experiences. So glad that I did too I wouldn’t be here without that experience and growth. I hope your journeys take you and yours to the stars and you find things that make you both feel good and you soar with those travels. Thank you again for your feed back Shatzi getting in touch with your own sexuality is a experience like no other and who better to share that with than the person you love more than life it’s self.
Hugs,
MG’s Beautiful
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There are podcasts about bdsm that are really good called eXtreme Restraints University XR-U love them they are so down to earth and relatable. Have fun!!
I listen to them on the treadmill… ?
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Sir actually assigned me homework while he was away a couple weeks ago. He had me watch one porno (or porn short_) each night he was gone and then we are working through reviewing them. He wanted me to pick ones that were interesting so that we could use them as a learning tool like everyone prior has suggested. It has been a great help as I can get across what I want or am trying to portray a bit easier now. 🙂
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Oh I LOVE the training of O… such a turn on
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