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Permanent Marking
My Sir and I are seriously thinking about subtle ways to permanently mark me as his. I’ve never had a tattoo and I’ve only had my ears pierce once. We are considering getting my nipples pierced and/or a white ink tattoo designed by my Sir (we’re not sure about placement yet). Has anyone else had body modification done as part of your D/s as symbol of ownership/possession/belonging? I welcome any thoughts and advice.
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I have one tattoo just below my hip that represents our D/s
There are many options like tattoos, piercings, branding, changing of body parts such as your clit etc
Almost all kinds of body modifications are permanent so choose wisely and make it special to just both of you.
For placement it depends if you want it where everyone can see so they know you’re his or some where private for just the two of you -
I have a larger tattoo on my back between my shoulders. It is an infinity sign with “his” written into it. There are also lilies with it. His flower that he often gives me. It was something we came up with together.
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Emily – thanks for the info/advice.
Sassy – that sounds very lovely and meaningful.
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Hello Beth, I have my nipples and clit pierced and Sir has enjoyed them from the first time I had them done. Now with D/s in our lives Sir uses them more even in bondage.
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Thanks for the share LT. 🙂
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That sounds very cool, thank you Morning Glory.
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Oooo I’ll see that in Vegas! I hope I’ll have a HK. By then
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I want to get a little bunny holding a little candle lighting the way…. Maybe in Vegas??? LOL!
You guys will have to hold my hand…. OUCH! XOXOXO LK -
LOl, LK! Sounds super cute, and perfect for you as you are helping to light our way in our D/s-M journey. ??
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UPDATE: My Sir got me pierced today – nipples and horizontal clit. I’m all sparkly now. ???
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Yay Beth. How are you feeling today? I wanted to get my nipples pierced or a tattoo myself. Daddy prefers I get a tattoo. Now to save up the money to get one 🙂
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Thanks MG & LL!
The piercing hurt in the moment but the pain faded quickly. My nipples have taken turns being mildly achy for minutes here and there but ibuprofen has really kept most of the pain away. Happily my clit hood piercing hasn’t really bothered me at all. My Sir was expecting me to be more sore but he is very glad I’m in so little pain.
We are still thinking of getting complimentary tattoos I don’t know if our tats will be the same or just similar. We haven’t come up with any designs yet. But I’m kind of excited to be marked as his, in anyway he wants.
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OOO yes, LK Ill hold your hand them you can hold mine !! I want a HELLO KITTY on the top of my foot !!
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Have u found it added to sensation?
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Sir and I just started talking about this last night. I had a vch piercing. I didn’t like it much. I felt like it took away from our sex life rather than adding to it..felt like we always had to be careful of it… and ummm we don’t like careful.. that was about two years ago. Last night sir requested I get a hood piercing. After looking it up. Ohhh pretty. I like!!!! But I want to know to those of u that have it. Does it add?
Then I also said I’d like a tattoo. Something small that he chooses. He said he would like to think about it. But isn’t opposed to it.
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I have a horizontal clit hood piercing because my hood wasn’t deep enough for a vertical piercing. We put a ring with a bead in that hangs over my clit. I can move the bead if I don’t want stimulation.
We are also still considering getting me or both of us tattooed.
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I’m not so much a piercing subbie, but Sir and I are both fairly tattooed. We have the same tattoo done in Japanese calligraphy. They are identical except that Sir has my name where I have his, but the rest is the same. I would happily get more wherever Sir wanted me to.
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Aww, that sounds beautiful. Thank you for the share, Natasha.
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My Sir wants to have me tattooed with a Celtic knot circle (similar to the one on the carving in my profile picture) with the word “Taken” written inside of it in Welsh. I’m so excited to do this for him! Now we just have to be sure of the correct Welsh wording/meaning. Some things don’t easily translate exactly the way you want. Lol
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Aww, that sounds wonderful. Good luck finding the right translation.
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Hey Beth- Congrats on your piercing!! I am heavily tattooed and mildly pierced (nipples, VHC,ear… nothing too crazy) but tattoos I do have many. Not sure if you tattooed yet but… Remember that piercings you can easily hide and take out tattoos are permanent. With that said my Sir and I both have Crowns on the outside of our hands. I the Queen and him the King. My right his left so when we hold hands they come together. I personally don’t recommend getting your hands done unless you are already committed to tattoos but I love the idea of “matching”, “coordinating” tattoos. Since I am typically on his left I will get glances of his crown and it reminds me that I am his Queen, making stand a bit prouder. Congrats again.
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Thanks J’s Queen! Neither of us has a tattoo yet. We’ve talked about it a little, but I think Sir needs to let the thought percolate in his brain for a while before he makes a decision or comes up with a design. And we do want something that can be discretely hidden.
The matching crowns sound lovely and I love the symbolism in having them on opposite sides so they can meet when you hold hands.
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I don’t have a tattoo that symbolized our Ds but I do have Sirs name and mine tatooed on my back, but not in a way that symbolizes our Ds. I have my kids tatooed on my back also and my grand babies are next. I love the idea of something to symbolize Ds. Maybe something on my outer lower leg. Love to hear anyone’s ideas or what kind of tat they have or want.
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I’ve got a VCH piercing, but I had that before I met my husband (I was rather a slutbag before he disciplined and tamed me). Initially, I found it really helped with stimulation but not so much now – that said, I’ve had it for over ten years, so maybe I’ve just forgotten what it was like without it!
I really want a tattoo on my butt that says “property of” and my husbands name, but he’s not so sure about it!
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