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New and excited
Hi everyone! I am extremely new to D/S my husdom, and I have been together for 10 years married for 4. I have always had a kinky side, but it took a little push for him to realize he likes to be the one in control! I know I have so much to learn, and I’m so excited to get as much information as I can! I want to be a good submrs to him in anyway possible. Right now we are struggling with a distance situation, and what we can do while he is away. He comes home on the weekends, but our D/S dynamic falters when he is gone. I am 100% “down the rabbit hole” and am ready to dive deeper in!
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Hello sirsbaby!
Welcum to subMrs! You found the right place to feel the atmosphere and keep your submission inspired.
“Traveling Sirs” can be tough, I know all too well!
Your Question:
Right now we are struggling with a distance situation, and what we can do while he is away. He comes home on the weekends, but our D/S dynamic falters when he is gone.
-TRAVELING ….Rituals…. Make them and stick to them… NOT TOO MANY…. too much pressure…
-Check In’s (BOTH OF YOU)
-Memes & Images (BOTH OF YOU)
-Thinking of you… Wrist bracelets or APP… really a TEXT WILL WORK!
I have soo many more ideas !!! You have to come up with ideas TOGETHER to figure out what you’re both willing to do and what feeds you both. Ask yourself what feeds your subMrs? …. What feeds his DOM…. He may not think of what his DOM wants but sitting in a downtime and having the intension of thinking about his DOM… he will at least come up with ideas and practice to see if he does or doesn’t like them.
Best of Wishes!
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Welcum to our community. There is a lot of subport and experience here. Read all about the foundations and SOAP here on the site. Stay connected with the other subs in the chat room and zoom calls. The calendar holds all of the amazing activities. So glad you are here.
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