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More than Sexually Satisfied, Happy to the Core
So my Sir and I have been married for 35 years and in this lifestyle for about 1 month. I am the one that suggested it and we are currently bedroom only. I was concerned because my Sir has been a great husband and lover but I wasn’t sure that the role of Dom would be something that he would enjoy or even like. He planned a wonderful evening last week which started with an e-mail telling me what he had planned and started off with dinner and drinks with him ordering for me (we both enjoyed watching the server quickly change to asking him if we needed anything, etc..) and then continued home in the bedroom.
My question for everyone is that I knew that this would satisfy me sexually but I have been completely taken by surprise at how HAPPY it has made me! Yes, I was always happy after a good night of sex but I don’t mean that–I mean TRULY HAPPY TO THE CORE OF MY BEING. I am shocked and don’t quite know what to make of this emotion.
It actually scares me a bit as we are just starting out and I don’t even feel like I know myself anymore! I always knew that being dominated turned me on sexually but this has hit me like a ton of bricks in that even being bedroom only, its sooo much more than that….
Who else feels this way? Were you surprised?
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4 Replies
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I have been so happy this past year…with Sir, our relationship, our dynamic and myself! So YES, I know exactly what you are talking about and it is WONDERFUL! This past year, Sir and I have been more emotionally connected and physically satisfied than I can ever remember…we found each other again, learned how to communicate with each other and really be heard, really really really started respecting each other’s roles in the house (and bedroom, lol)…
I would NEVER go back to vanilla…EVER!
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Dear SD,
What a wonderful share. Big cheers to u both on 35 years of marriage. YES! For me I totally understand….I too felt this. For myself , I have always wanted to be totally 100% Female, to be a helper not in charge, to serve, fully submitt live this lifestyle! So, glad you found submrs !
Curvey
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SD
I’m in a long term relationship but we are totally new to the lifestyle. Like you I’m shocked beyond all expectations at how it has changed us. Having a D/s relationship has given us a new and unexpected respect for each other and the dynamic of how we interact. It solves problems by having Dom and sub rolls. There is so much less time spent negating. Mutually beneficial decisions are made quickly because of our new found respect each other. We are both happier, our sex life is amazing and we are again in love instead of just loving each other. I wish there were more people in my life I could share my joy at discovering our D/s lifestyle. I’ve always been a strong person and could not have imagined the joy and freedom this life style would give both of us.De La Rosa
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Thank you everyone, I am so happy to have found this group. So much information and knowledge and such a safe environment! hugs to everyone today!!
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