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Master Title Thoughts
So I am going to start this is off with this is my view or views. I mean no disrespect to those that granted themselves the title of Master at the start. I just wanted to explain my thinking on this and why.
So over the weekend Sir made a comment of I was more a mouthy slave than a sub. As in I usually always do as he asks but um with somethings I’m more grumbling when I do them. This then turned into a discussion which Sir has hinted towards a few times of how he would like our dynamic to eventually evolve from Dom sub dynamic to a Master slave dynamic; in which I think he would like a CNC in there as well.
Sir and I both think the title of Master should be bestowed by the right side of the slash, in other words by sub/slave/pet/little. Since meeting with others in our local community we have definitely seen a difference between those that call themselves Masters whom earned the title by their s-type and those that smacked that title on themselves. The former seem to have a rounder view and better grasp on it than later. Often of which it’s noticeable with a lack of respect, accountability, and responsibility along with arrogance with those whom gave them selfs that title. I’m sure this not case for all but it is the majority that Sir and I have noticed.
So now I’m twirling what makes a Master in my head. What qualities I would need to be there in order to grant this title to Sir. So a big one is confidence in his dominance along with that is being comfortable within his dominance. Knowing when to push and how far to push me, and when to draw back. His skill level with certain tools such as flogger, cane, making sure I’m tied up securely well I’m not too sure how much is needed and not needed as that is something that he is constantly working on. I think Sir would also have to be a little more encompassing with his dominance in more areas of my choices. I’m not sure if I’m stating that last part right. More like he would need to stretch his dominance in other aspects of my choices.
I’m still thinking on this and only really started thinking about in the last few days. I’m curious to hear anybody else’s thoughts on this or how and why you’re Husdom has the title of Master.
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Mrs.T
Thanks for sharing the reasoning on why you chose Master instead Sir. I can see and understand why and how.
Perhaps I should have better phrased my thought as I think there may be some miscommunication. What would you need from your Husdom in order for your dynamic to change from a Dom/sub dynamic to a Master/slave dynamic? What that change our dynamic and if so how? What growth would your self need in order for this change?
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