• im new….. He isn't…

    Posted by brittanybrattany on at

    Any advice on this? i’m new-ish to the lifestyle… and my Master isn’t… i was his submissive 6yrs ago but things happened and we went our separate ways. In those 6yrs it seems i have forgotten just what He likes. i’ve had to be very independent and typically a mom, and i’m having a hard time getting back into my submissive mindset. at times… i’m typically very defiant and He isn’t liking that at all.. i feel extremely bad i’m having a hard time getting back into my submissive tendencies. Yesterday He said i did really good and He was very proud of me and i felt so proud and happy that i pleased Him so. But today He’s not very happy with me because a few times i forgot to ask for things and haven’t anticipated His needs. Any advice of how to get back??

    pearl replied 7 years, 3 months ago 2 Members · 1 Reply
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  • pearl

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    What sort of things do you do to get yourself into the submissive mindset each day? Here are some things that I do that you can think on.
    Each morning I present myself to Wolf nude. He loves my breasts, so this is the way he wants to start off his day and it helps me get into the right mindset. I approach him with my head bowed and wait for him to tell me to climb into his lap.
    I also try to do yoga at least 3 times a week. Some weeks I’m more successful than others but after yoga I meditate on my submissiveness for 15 min or so. I’ve had a lot of revelations come to me during that time.

    I would add that you need to be talking to your Master a lot. Let him know you are struggling and what your plan is to get back into the mindset. I have found that for me it is a decision that I need to make at least every day and sometimes more often than that.

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