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I need some advice
My master and I have a great relationship I’ve always done what I’ve been told, never needed to be disciplined and during the day when he’s at work I basically can do whatever I want long as things are taken care of around the house and I am presentable the way he expects when he comes in…
but I wish he was a little bit more controlling or demanding sometimes I feel that because I always do what I’m told is why he’s not and I can talk to him about anything I just don’t know how to bring up this topic..
The desire for Master to be a little bit more controlling when it comes to my day cause I really have no discipline when he’s not around, I keep things to the last minute, I do things when I feel like doing them and luckily he has not surprised me and come home early..
a part of me wants to actually not do something just to see what he would do but then the other part of me doesn’t want to disappoint him… so I feel like I’m in a a catch-22 situation I don’t know if I should bring up the desire for him to be more controlling or demanding or just leave it alone so I guess that’s the advice I’m asking - 6 Replies
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Thank you Morning Glory.
I did tell him earlier that morning. -
So I am really really really good on avoiding my chores till the last second. It annoyed the crap out of Sir if he came home and I still had chores on the list. So what he did was change something. It’s a little change but made a big difference. I have to text Sir when I get a chore done. If it’s one of the nasty ones like cleaning out the fireplace for the season then I’ll add a picture as proof it’s done. Sir loves seeing that I’m getting stuff done thru out the day. It also makes me accountable for my own procrastination and I don’t leave stuff to the last possible second. Plus he can give me a reminder if I forget a chore he gave me.
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That’s great idea PP!! I try to ask my Sir send me a text when he’s leaving work so I know ahead of time when yo expect him, then I rush around and get it all done lol
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Ha!
It’s funny you say that..
I hadn’t even gotten a chance to say something to him (I swear Master can read my mind)
A couple of days after I posted this I got a texts from him during the day asking me to send a picture after I did (certain tasks) throughout the day… [when he knew something was supposed to be done already]
I tell you, he almost got me but luckily I keep the house very tidy already…I still haven’t done everything when supposed to.. but I got to change that quick… he only works 10 minutes from home & I know one day he may just pop up….
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Thank you PP & S&S…
So glad to know I’m not the oonly one. -
Your welcome
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