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Hmmm…
So I had asked a question the the other day about playtime feeling like a job, not fun. In the discussion that followed, someone mentioned that it sounded like I might be playing along for Beaus sake and not my own and that needed to be dealt with if that’s was in fact the case. So that left me wondering and thinking…what if I am doing this purely for him? What if I don’t need this lifestyle like he does but I’m willing to do it for him? Will this work? Does anyone have experience with this?
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I wanted you to know that you are being heard here but I don’t have any experience with that particular situation. However, in the beginning I did wonder if my husband was just going along for me. At one point he said, “I don’t think I’m a Dom but I am your Dom.” It took me awhile to be comfortable with that and now I think he would say that he is A Dom. I think it can work if you are open and honest with yourself and your husband. You may even find that after some time you are more comfortable with TTWD that you ever thought you would be.
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