• He's new, I'm not.

    Posted by caelumconstellation on at

    I have been in several long term relationships with several doms. I brought up being in a D/s with my fiancee, and he was all for it, and I would be his first submissive. However, he is having issue with taking full control. I actually contacted my previous sir (a man with 7+ years experience) and he agreed to help him and coach him through getting to his own dom-space. My previous sir did an AMAZING job giving my master the confidence boost he needed. Is there anything as his submissive that I can do to help bring him to full control. I asked my previous sir this as he know I have no experience with new a new dominant, and he responded with “one day, it will just click. Have patience and during a scene, it will be like an animal broke loose”. I believe him fully on this but I need some new ideas to help my master find his break through. I would never want to force it on him, just some new ideas or challenges that I can do with him overtime.

    samanthasuicide replied 7 years, 1 month ago 4 Members · 4 Replies
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  • pearl

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    Welcum to the site. Is you Master registered on HusDom. It is the companion site to this one and run by LK’s sir Mr. Fox. I think he will find a lot of help there. When you get a chance pop in to the Daily Chat. There are a lot of times when there are 5+ subbies there that could answer specific questions. Also, reading through LK’s blog posts will help.

  • samanthasuicide

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    I am in desperate need of some good advice I’m recently new in a committed relationship with my Dom I’m new to the whole sub lifestyle and it makes it even harder because we live in different states we travel and see other when we are together it is perfect but when we are apart there are alot of issues him and I both have insecurities from our past any good relationship\sub advice to help grow our relationship distance kills me anyone going through something similar ??

    • staci

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      Hi Samantha!

      There are several subbies here in the SubMrs community that are in long distance relationships. Come join us in the Daily subMrs Chat and they can share their strategies.

      Hugs!
      Staci

  • samanthasuicide

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    Omg this makes me so happy

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