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Halloween Play
So my husband and I were going to go to a party. Pimp/hoe was the theme. I thought we could keep it classy and have him really dress up and me something short and sleek. He really liked the idea. I was a bit hesitant, but asked if we could keep a few fun rules going between us throughout the night, and he agreed. Now mind you we are not D/s. I would really appreciate some dark, kinky, fun, enticing rules or actions that we could do continuously throughout the night. I could really use some ideas ladies. Please help.
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OOOO HOW FUN !! I HAVE LOTS of shares… Your not D/s ?
CURVEY
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If I’m being honest, no we are not. I crave it like my next breath of air. Unfortunately he doesn’t see the LS like I do. So for now we are vanilla with an occasional twist.
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However I must give him much credit, and myself. He plays very nicely ?.
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Well, playing the part of the “hoe” you should definitely plan out some suggestive phrases to whisper in his ear throughout the night, and find opportunities to flash your leg or wiggle your shoulder at him … You could be tasked to always keep his drink glass refilled at all times, come up with fun nicknames for the night (could help the roleplay too?)…
BTW, I like that you give yourself and him credit for the fun you currently have in your relationship. <3
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Thank you!!! It’s kind of strange. At first I was putting to much pressure on him with a this newness. One I felt I gave it up, took two years and my gut and soul to hit the floor, I still have this in me. I gave up on trying my way to get him to see what I do. But there are fundamentals that I have tapped into with all this learning, about the LS and myself that I can never turn back from. With that I see small growth in him. For instance, he has checked me twice this week about my voice, tone, or wording while speaking to him. Once was a look and a nod by him, the other was through a text. I admitted my wrong, apologized, and let him know how and what I should do differently. Before he would have just been mad and whateverd me. Even though we are not D/s I have hope for one day. Maybe he’ll fall into it without even noticing…if I’m careful ?
Thanks for the ideas!!! Much appreciated!!!
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