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grateful for a new year
Hi Subbies,
so I have been a little out of it this month. My sir had open heart surgery urgently and we’ve had a lot of vanilla crash around us. But he is getting better and I am more grateful for Ds/M even more. We have a connection that is amazing and when he was really sick I was able to keep calm and keep him calm. Now he is getting better so I am thinking of creative ways to play as he is chasing me around the house LOL
Through all this Sir has decided to commit even more and get on Husdom, and look for some outside Dom training. I found that Subs are strong and capable even while under pressure and still respect the dynamic of this TTWD.
So anyone have any ideas about play with low exertion I am all ears. no actual sex for 3 more weeks but that’s not really stopping my sir.
Guinn
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Hi Guinn,
Great to hear your Sir is on the mend and wanting to move forward! Maybe try exploring some massage techniques. There are some very sensual massages that can be done. LK had a couple posts I believe. Another option might be practicing some bondage/rope work. Also, maybe focusing more on the non-sexual aspects of D|s-M. The Foundations, the Submissive Tools. Hope some others cum along with more suggestions!😘😘😘😘 hg
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I’m so glad the immediate health crisis is past and you are both healing and moving forward together!
I was listening to a podcast a few weeks ago about “sensual touch” and some of the things they were talking about would probably fit really well in a recovery period. The speaker was talking about things that might appear simple but which have a big impact when done with intention… like, washing your partner’s feet. Set them up with a foot bath with epsom salts or similar, then rub them with oil for twenty or thirty minutes, kiss or fondle them, then wrap them up in a towel hot from the dryer. Or do the same with your partner’s hand, or massage their scalp and brush through their hair and wrap them up warm.
Or even going whole hog and bathing their whole body (which might work for you since he probably can’t have a bath and sponge baths are often not that much fun… though I bet a sexy nurse role play could be fun!)
And then they were also talking about using your voice and breath… either having your partner laying back all warm and comfy and describing them from head to toe, all the things you notice and love or lust as you go. Or using your lips and breath to just skim over their body without ever tipping over into full on sexy time.
It was really interesting to listen to the speaker (since she is a proDomme and her specialty outside the sensual touch is extreme impact without marking her subs)
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thank you for all your suggestions. I am going to try and make him happy in a few ways LOL
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