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going to fast?
I am afraid we are going to fast. I don’t want it to burn out. We started less than two weeks ago and he has played with me every night since! He is pushing all my soft no’s and I am enjoying every minute of it. I’m just concerned.
It started out as a challenge of me being sub for a week, and now I have convinced him to keep going through a full hormonal cycle. about 35 days for me. Any advice? I don’t want it to end.
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If you both are comfortable at the pace you are going, then keep going and keep exploring. I have been D/s-M for 16 months now and I don’t see it ever ending. We have both grown so much since starting and our marriage and love have just gotten stronger. We all start out at different paces, go at the pace that you and your Sir are comfortable at. You can never stop growing and learning in this dynamic. This journey is yours and your Sir’s and you write your own story and path. If it feels like it going to fast then tell him how you feel, schedule Downtime. I hope this helped you some. Best of wishes, Babe.
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Have fun exploring, enjoy yourselves. Communicate about what you’ve like and not liked, any concerns you may have, praise him and share your gratitude. You may run out of steam but if you are communicating well that will be temporary. I like to think of it this way – sometimes we sprint, sometimes we jog, sometimes we take a rest in the grass and take in the scenery. Enjoy the journey.
Smiles – Beth
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