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From Submissive to Leader and back again
For those of you whose husdoms travel for work, how do you handle the transition from Submissive to Leader? How do you acclimate once again to the Submissive upon his return? When my Sir is away for extended periods of time and with little communication I am thrust into the role of leader. Leader of the household, decision maker, mother, father, teacher, and many more! Upon his return I struggle so much with giving up the control once again and the ability to let him lead. I want to give up the control but just can’t seem to do so. It is exhausting to wear so many hats and one of the reasons I wanted to try this lifestyle. It takes so long for us to find our footing after these separations and not only for me but my children. They always want to come to me or ignore what their father has asked simply because they no longer view him as the leader in our household. When we do eventually work through all of the kinks in the transition it is yet time again for him to depart. I do love what this has brought to our marriage in the last 1-2 years but it always creates more challenges due to his schedule.
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