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From rags to riches….
Hello, my name is Purrl. Married to ORDDOM on husdom. Our story….. After being married for seven years, it was not great. We had two small children, a busy schedule, we had an enriching life of traveling ( Sir has flight benefits) with our children and were so deep into parenting and work that our marriage didn’t even fall to the side lines , it was nonexistent. We were business partners, friends at best. No passion or love was left and intimacy was rare. It was entirely me that was pulling away. I didn’t care and assumed most marriages ended up that way. I was overly anxious, very controlling, high anxiety and everyone was feeling the effects. Even friends. Rags. Then one day well after the movie had come out and been released to regular TV all the way down to one of the premium movie channels, FSOG came on. Needless to say I was a little intrigued and wanted to know what the book offered that the movie didn’t show. As we all know, books are 100 times better than the movies. After some research revealed some interesting things about the book, I started to read it. 3/4 of the way through the first book I was feeling very excited and very much like I needed to learn more. It was a simple yet effective detailed article from one website that talked about what a dominant man should be. I showed this to my husband along with some other readings and findings. He knew this was him and I knew I was always meant to be a submissive. We decided to be D/S- M two times a week after I got a formal acceptance from him. I looked forward to those two days all week long and they were the most exciting days I have ever had my entire life! It took no more than a couple of weeks before Sir said that we were going to do this 24/7 and I felt like I had won the lottery. Riches. Never forget the day he told me he found husdom and (the look on his face) when he said how much information and how good he felt about that page as helping him grow as a dominant. It was for him that the train was rolling. Next day he text me this page associated with husdom for the subs. Submrs. First year was the hardest and most exciting at the same time. Running, falling, stretching, learning, talking, crying, passion, excitement, discovery. We started D/s-M Feb 2017 and will never go any other way. He is an amazing dominant, I am a committed, passionate submissive, and we are more in love now and know more about each other than we ever have. Always working and moving forward. You ladies in this group have been amazing along this journey! Sadly I have been inactive from this group though my Sir has stayed somewhat active in Husdom. Now that I have the premium membership I plan to talk , learn from, engage , befriend, and enjoy this inspiring community again.
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4 Replies
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Welcome! I am so glad you are here and I love your story! I truly look forward to chatting with you and getting to know you better!
Smooches,
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Hi Purrl and Welcome to Premium! My Sir, Mr. G8tr, chats with your Sir frequently and I would love to get to know you better too. Thank you for sharing your story! I feel like I won the lottery with this lifestyle too. And I love how excited my Sir is interacting and learning from other Doms on HusDom. I love when he is on the site laughing with his friends. I have found my second home on this site and I hope you will enjoy being more active and making friends along the way.
Warmest Regards,
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Hi Purrl and Welcome back and to the premium side!! Thank you for sharing your story with us! I cant wait to chat with you and get to know you better! My Sir, GreyWolf, gets so excited chatting with other Doms and HusDom and I love to just sit back and watch him laugh, learn and grow from his fellow Doms! Its an amazing thing to see! I would have to say that I feel like I won the lottery with this lifestyle as well. This lifestyle is what saved my marriage because it was a lot like yours was Purrl. Since we have been d/s-M it has been nothing short of amazing!
Luna
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Welcum back Purrl! So happy you and your Sir are in a great place. I enjoy our chats and can’t wait to meet you both at the retreat! HUGS! lk
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