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DTS Training
Hahaha. I cannot help but laugh. If you were present yesterday around 7pm PST then you know what it is.. If not then here it is. Lol. My Sir decided to inform everyone that I can deep throat.. LK then nicknamed me Deep Throat Sotto (DTS). After further discussion on the topic I offered to write a forum post about what I do during a BJ that allows me to deep throat without gagging so bad I have to stop or gagging at all. I decided to title this DTS Training since there is already a deep throat post. Lol.
Last night I was able to accomplish this homework and I will do my best to explain.
First when I give Sir a BJ he is normally laying on the bed and I have free reign to do what I want unless he grabs me by the hair. What I do can work for any form of a BJ whether its during playtime or just while your Sir is sitting watching tv.
When trying to deep throat think about chugging water. Think about what you do with your throat to allow yourself to take more then one sip at one time. Also concentrate, think about what you are doing or what you are going to do. Pep talk yourself in your head. Remember mind over matter. Tell yourself you aren’t going to gag but if you happen to gag tell yourself nothing is going to happen and you will only gag once. One of the comments I believe on the deep throat forum post said while brushing your teeth use your tooth brush to practice controlling your gag reflex. I would add to also while brushing your teeth practice concentrating. Tell yourself you are going to brush the far back of your throat and you aren’t going to gag but if you do you will only gag once. If you feel confident while brushing your teeth as well tell yourself you are going to brush the far back of your throat and do it for as long as you can. If it helps have your Sir direct you while you are brushing your teeth since we all want to please our Sir.
Here is what happens during a BJ I give my Sir. Most of the BJs outside of playtime Sir is laying on the bed and doesn’t take me by the hair until the very end so I will start with those ones. When I initially take Sir into my mouth I get him wet so that my mouth slides over him easier. I then just begin to go up and down with my eyes closed and listen for his moans and groans. Having my eyes closed unless otherwise informed helps me concentrate on what I am doing. Over the years Sir’s groans have taught me that what I am doing he is really enjoying. I take him completely in my mouth a few times. Before each one I tell myself I am going to take him completely in. Then I do it; I also run my tongue side to side at the base of his cock when he is completely in my mouth. Between the prep and concentrating on something else helps me not to gag. Also I do not fear gagging. I think if you fear it it will happen. Gagging on Sir’s cock is sexy to me. I couldn’t tell you why but it is.. lol.. Sometimes I deep throat Sir multiple times in a row, kind of like the head of his cock is bouncing off the back of my throat. Once again I tell myself before I do it and then I just do it. If Sir wants me to take him in completely and hold it then I take a few deep breathes while moving up and down Sir a little slower to catch my breath and then I take one deep breath and go for it. I also know when Sir is about to grab my head to finish because his legs tense and sometimes he grabs the wrist of the hand that is not touching him. Knowing that I tell myself what’s about to happen and that its going to be fast and furious and then done and we can do it.
Now if the BJ is during playtime the same thing applies. Lately I have been kneeling over the tub during playtime but there have been a few times where I have been tied to the bed or my head has been hanging over the bed. Either way I concentrate on what is happening and I pep talk myself. Playtime BJs are similar but Sir takes me by the hair more and does what he pleases. However all the same techniques apply.
As subs we all want to please our Sir. Knowing that use it during your pep talk. Tell yourself that it would please him. Also do not fear that you won’t be able to do it. I believe fearing any of it holds you back from reaching your full potential or learning what that is. For practice ask your Sir if you can give him a BJ and you have free reign so that you can practice concentrating taking him in all the way so that during playtime you can please him more. Toothbrushes are a good start but they are all about the same size and our Sir is not so practicing with the real thing helps better.
I truly hopes this helps all my fellow subbies out there. I know I don’t have a special technique or something I physically do to help but concentrating and pep talking myself truly helps me. Over time it comes more naturally and you just do it by nature and don’t really think about it. Once you have accomplished a BJ with minimal gagging and lots of deep throat your confidence will boost and you will find yourself doing it more and more easily.
If anyone has any questions feel free to ask and I will do my best to answer. Also if you are also like me and can deep throat easily please leave a comment adding anything to help others trying to accomplish this.
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Great post DTS…AKA… Sottomesso….
A big drink of water… OK.. Well my Sir does training about 1-2 times a month. We sometimes use it in a scene.
I do practice with toothbrush…. I am thinking maybe a rubber dildo…. Would help. Than you so much for doing this… Please add as you go..LOL!Thank your Sir for letting you come forward and help the Warren….
HUGS, DTS!
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( 9 );o)
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If you are going to use a dildo for practice whether rubber or glass I would make sure it is the same size as your Sir in width and length that way when practicing it is as accurate as possible. 🙂 I am glad you like the post and I will definitely keep everyone updated if I come up with anything knew. 🙂
Sotto (AKA. DTS)
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Thank you Sotto! I’ll try the chugging water thing, sounds like it might work for me.
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I know this is an old post but I am new to LK’s site and thought it might be helpful to add a comment. If you drop your tongue down and backwards, sort of into your throat, you move the gag reflex further from your Sir’s cock and gagging is less likely to occur.
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Thank you for sharing your tips here My Sir used to shy away from BJ as he thought it made me sick now he understands how much pleasure I get he feels more able to demand it or take it if you understand what I mean.. but I have found I am gagging on deep penetration so I will definitely be looking for the deep throat post and trying your tips
M.
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