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D/s to the Rescue!
When my Sir and I began our D/s journey we talked for days (literally) about things we loved about our relationship and each other and things we didn’t live so much. One of the things he didn’t like so much was the amount of pressure I put on myself for things to be perfect. I would work myself silly without rest or real food, for that matter. It seemed easier than relying on anyone else. In the morning end I would be exhausted, irritable, irrational, and suffer from migraines for days at a time. His first order, officially as my HusDom was that all large projects go through him. I submit a project plan and an approximate timeline and he determines what’s safe, healthy, and reasonable. This system worked well until I was dishonest and ignored his rules. I did things that were not in the plan, I lied and said I had more help than I actually did. The worst part is that I didn’t have my HusDom to soften the blow because I was lying to him. I thought I was being really inconspicuous with my clear breakdown, but Sir’s watchful eye took notice. He saw that my mood changed dramatically, and stopped me. When he asked direct questions, I couldn’t lie. He sat with me all night to come up with solutions to the problems I created and saw me through to the end of the project. After a few days of rest came the punishment LOL. I learned a few things from this situation: 1. I am so grateful for how seriously my Sir takes his role and how closely he watches for danger…even when I am the danger 2. I am so grateful for D/s because before he may or may not have caught the warning signs and even if he had, he wouldn’t have stepped in until I was two steps away from the mental ward. 3. I have never felt so safe and protected in my life and I can’t say enough about the freedom I’ve learned through submission. 4. It’s not a good idea to lie to Sir
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April – That’s so fantastic!
I had a similar situation here this week, and today is my mandatory day off from work, per my Sir’s orders. I’m sure I’ll probably be punished tonight for taking on too much, but I’m so grateful to have him there to watch out and keep me from taking on more than I can handle!
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