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Do you get stuck?
So this is more about the play/sex side of things. When you play/have sex, do you ever find that you get stuck doing the same things over and over? Like you have to be into a certain type of play to fall into the category of kink and bdsm? I find that my husDom and I sometimes fall prey to this. Don’t get me wrong, I love a good over-the-knee spanking and for him to face fuck me and not be gentle. But sometimes I miss the intimacy. The gentleness that comes from him touching my body. Caressing it in a way that’s so loving and tender. We recently decided to play, but felt like we were both trying to hard. we weren’t in the right headspace for a more bdsm heavy scene. So he stopped and just treated me like his kitten. Soft strokes, touching my face, gently tugging my hair to pull my head back so he could kiss and nibble my neck. We made love and it was wonderful. It made me realize that although I love the kinky stuff and I love being fucked, I loved him making gentle love to me. He said he enjoyed it also. It just made me realize that there is no right or wrong. No set guideline as to what works for a D/s relationship. It’s what works for us and if I’m that moment he wants to be tender and gentle, I will let him because I love him and I love being his. If he wants to rip my clothes off and put his hand around my throat while he whispers that I’m his slut, I’m good with that as well! My submission to him doesn’t have to look like images that you find on the internet when you google “bdsm” or “kink”. It can look like whatever we want it to!
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