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Distance Ds
Yesterday my Sir took the step of attempting Ds from a distance. We have talked about it extensively, but, any chance has always been approached as a caring lover giving support, not a Dom guiding me as necessary.
I resisted, fought. Was angry and hurt. I worried that I had disappointed him with my reactions.
He was wonderful. I was able to work through the difficult emotions and come out the other side feeling led in the way I needed. I feel so much closer to him, despite the physical distance between us. There is a definite change in the way I am addressing him and appreciating him now that he has stepped up into that role, not just when we are physically together.
All of this is only possible because of these sites! Through my reading, I have been able to openly ask for the things I need. I have found such amazing support, as has he on HusDom. We’ve been struggling to find our way though Ds for the last 6 months alone, and in the 3 weeks since finding this site, I have seen the changes I have longed for.
I now have protocols, both day to day and for when we are together. He came out and asked if I wished a honorific title for him. It is something I have craved from the beginning, but when it was presented previously, he left it to me to determine what I wanted to call him. Now, I am His fox. He is my Tiger! It amazes me how the little things make so much difference.
Thank you LK and Mr. Fox for creating a safe space to explore this part of our lives!
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2 Replies
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That is so wonderful! I’m so happy for you!!! ❤️❤️❤️
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Congratulations Afox! This is a wonderful step for the two of you.
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