Deep Throat

[Unknown Member]

And yes…I talked to Sir about it and he has agreed to help me outside of our scenes, I’m sure it will be “hard”. Lolol, I slay myself….

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[sirs-succubus]

I’m still practicing this myself – so any advice would be really awesome. Most sites I’ve read advocate aligning the mouth with the throat (such as the “head hanging off the bed” position).

At this point I can only get anywhere near this with a lot of pre-planning (such as not eating during the day before the attempt) and despite practicing a lot I’m still having trouble not gagging.

Though the empty stomach and (believe it or not) squeezing my left thumb (probably psychosomatic) seem to help, they don’t really help enough. :/

[Unknown Member]

Sir will drag me over the side of the bed, head hanging back, where my hands are useless, serving only to keep me from sliding off the bed. If he has lubed up, it goes down much smoother but he tells me I need to learn not to gag, and that he still can’t feel his cock hitting the back of my throat..,I’m thinking some sore throat spray back there might help?

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[nskay]

I’ve been training myself in this area lately too. In my early years of being sexually active, I was able to do this with little to no effort. Then I went a few years without it at all and I seemed to have “lost” my gift. I gag a lot easier now for some reason. I read an interview with a sword swallower (haha) who was asked about the gag reflex. He said that you have to train yourself to control it. If you have one you will likely never get rid of it, but you can learn to control it so you don’t actually throw up. The technique that he recommended was using your toothbrush. Whenever you brush your teeth, when you are done with your teeth, try “brushing” the back of your throat. Find where your reflex is activated. Do it every time you brush you teeth. It’s a very, very slow process but you should be able to help yourself learn control that way. I’ve been doing this, and I think it’s been helping a little bit, but I’ve been kind of inconsistent about it lately.
Practice Practice Practice! I bet your Sir won’t mind helping you with your training on it 😉

(PS. I read about throat spray, and there are a number of sources that they it really doesn’t work and neither do numbing agents. I’ve never tried them so I can’t say from experience, this is just what I’ve read other people talking about….)

[cailinfire]

In training myself for this! I have to say, my gag reflex has improved. The first time we did DT it was like a high for me. It’s been a long time fantasy for me believe it or not. I just get really turned on by the thought! So I tried to make myself do it, but I just can’t. So, I told my Sir of my desire, and that I wasn’t going to be able to do it myself. If it’s something he wanted, then he would have to “force” me. He did. It was amazing! I still gagged, but never too bad. And now…well, I still gag some, but it’s really so hot that I just don’t mind. There are times when I’m able to handle it really well, and times when I’m not doing such a good job keeping my reflex under control, so my Sir usually moves onto something else after a few more forceful attempts, of course!
The best position for me, is NOT hanging my head over the edge of the bed…that only increased my gag reflex. For me, lying on my back/side at the edge of the bed with my head turned toward him standing beside me. I honestly don’t know why, but it works for me. He sometimes picks my head up, and maneuvers me around, or grabs my hair. He took a video once….omg it was hot to watch!
Well, I didn’t add much to help there did I? I’m still working on this, but I love it so much I’m willing to keep trying!

[Unknown Member]

So I guess more than one of us performed this little ‘task’ last night – I asked if I could 🙂 I like the hanging the head over the side of the bed. But what about on your bottom with the back of your neck and head right on the edge of the mattress and he of course standing above you. You need to sit (depending on your height), so that the back of your neck is just right so your head is back and throat open 🙂 Little by little take him in, focusing on relaxing and breathing through your nose as you …. Mine enjoys when I use ice (I use the ice crusher rather than large pieces) & also the Altoid Small Peppermints (you can find in the check-out lanes at Walmart and sometimes Target) for a bit of a tingling sensation for him. Have them on your tongue for a bit before, then put some extras up in between your teeth and gums, retrieve for more tingling – enjoy …

[Unknown Member]

Awesome suggestions, thanks! GOF I like the head sideways idea. I know I am taking him deeper because my throat is sore. But he says I need to learn to take him all the way. Hope to practice more this week, we are at relatives all week!

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[fifibubu]

Ah I suck at DT. Horribly. I gag and vomit everytime I try to deep throat.
Great idea on using the toothbrush to train. I am going to try it and see if it works for me.

[littlej]

OMG yes, I almost always gag and nearly vomit when we try DT. Friday night we tried a different position, I was bent over the end of the bed, face down, tied ankles and hands stretched above. Mr P untied my hands and while I was lying still face down on the bed, using my hair to pull me up, he knelt before me and angled him self and slid down my throat. I felt him go deeper than ever before – still have sore throat! Seemed to slip past the gag reflex for a moment I thought yes, I can do it.. and then…. happened again.

[Unknown Member]

Littlej It seems we all have this problem in the beginning…may I suggest that your Sir try having you face up with your head over the edge of bed. This way your throat is more open and the angle is correct..
Roadrunner♥

[littlej]

My words don’t seem to really explain how it happened.. ofc a picture would be better.. and no, you can’t have one of them.. lol

[fifibubu]

Does anyone know if throat numbing spray works? I’m more scared that it makes your throat numb enough that you can’t tell during DT whether it’s too rough or not and damage the throat.

Also my friend told me she found that by being relax helps a lot to make DT go smoothly.

[littledrakon]

Ok, so I went on a little shopping trip. We were talking about this on the chat, and I had asked about the numby throat sprays. To make a long story short, Husband has said yes to being a guinea pig and me spilling the beans; and I will be experimenting with cough drops and sore throat spray. Both have an oral anesthetic, which is what we want – for the numbing!

I also seem to live in a town of prudes. Neither of the drug stores I went to had DT spray, and neither did Walmart (aren’t they suppose to sell everything?!?) They all had tons of different lubes and condoms – both had different variations of warming and flavors… But no DT spray. Walgreens’ website lied. LIED! I was so looking forward to the chocolate mint flavor, too. =(

Anyways, we begin experimenting tonight! All the down and dirty details later!

[Kaninchen]

Want the DLD… later! (DOWN,LOW & DIRTY)!!!!!

LK

[littledrakon]

Ok, so cough drops – and these were Halls – didn’t help any. All the did was make me super slobbery, and made my nose runny! Husband also said that it seemed like my throat was actively trying to keep him out, lol

Throat spray is up next!

[Kaninchen]

OK… NO cough-drops!

LK

[littledrakon]

Ok, sore throat spray is out of the question, too, unless you can get it to the whole back of your throat. I couldn’t, so ended up with a numb tongue and top half of my throat!

So, I think that unless you have the ability to get spray (DT spray or plain ol’ throat spray) all the way back, it’s not gonna do any good, and even then I think it would be minimal help.

[mabel]

Anyone found something that works for gag reflex by chance

[kittenpurrsir-silver-fox]

If you are a beginner to DT, you may want to have you Sir lay on his side in bed with you on your side as well. With your cheek on the bed, you can start move your mouth along his length. This position seems to help, since your muscles in your neck are relaxed. Let me know what you think.
Kitten

[pixiegirl]

Practicing….
Anyone got to the no-gag stage yet please? How did you manage it? Really would love to do it well for Sir, at the moment he still needs to ease off for a few seconds now and then to give me time to regain my composure. The easiest way for me is lying on the bed, head hanging over the edge and faceup, but i still gag sometimes.
Thank You for any help
Pixiegirl

[kinkyriver5111]

I found some oral mints at my local sex store. They work great for me. You can find them at this website:
http://www.pipedreamproducts.com

I already looked up the product numbers for you.

Mints:
Spearmint PD7440-88
Chocolate PD7440-63
Cinnamon PD7440-72

Lollipops
Spearmint PD7441-88
Chocolate PD7441-63
Cinnamon PD7441-72

I hope this helps.

~KinkyRiver5111~

[pixiegirl]

Thank You KinkyRiver, I’ll have a look to see if we can get them over here.
What do they do for you, numb your throat or change the taste? it’s not the taste it’s touching the back of my throat thats my problem.
Thank You

[kinkyriver5111]

The mints both numbs my troat and taste good. You suck on them until they dissolve completely in your mouth. Now I do have to say that I have not personally tried the lollipops, but I am sure they will work the same.

Best wishes
~KinkyRiver~

[littlesubkitty]

I guess I’m pretty lucky as I now have next to no gag reflex at all, however I used too.
My slightly unconventional method of practice used to be using my index finger to try and touch my uvula (dangly bit at the back of your throat) once that didn’t make me gag, I upped it to two fingers. I found breathing out through my mouth slowly helped with not gagging too. Once I had that down I was onto practicing DT on the real thing, this was harder (pun totally intended!) but found that if I opened up my throat like I was yawning, I had no problems as long as I didn’t go too fast at first. Now I can take my sir all the way no problems. It’s definitely worth it just to see the look on his face!

[lovelace]

I’m still a DT work in progress, but the yawning and nose breathing help. Also read that pushing your tongue out makes it easier to go down when you uh, go down. Teeheehee. Its not as easy as you think.

On a side note, I did throw up a little once. It didn’t bother him near as much as it did me. When it comes to oral sex, I’m not sure there is anything I could do that would make Sir NOT
want me to keep trying again. And again….