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  • Dealing with seperation

    Posted by sub_kitten_411 on at

    Hello there. Im 26 years old and have been with my fiance who is my sir for almost 3 years now. He recently has to go oversea for a trip for a month. This is the first time we seperate for this long. I find mysrlf missing him and also having a hard time dealing with my body. I really want a spanking, but Sir is not here, and he won’t be back anytime soon. Wondering if anyone experience this feeling before, and how to ease the craving? Thanks a lot

    sub_kitten_411 replied 7 years, 3 months ago 4 Members · 4 Replies
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  • pearl

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    How much contact will you have with your Sir while he is gone?

    • sub_kitten_411

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      @Mrs.Blue : I dont get much contact with him since he is oversea. I got to chat with him like one a week for few minutes when he gets wifi somewhere
      @rachelle78: Sir did give me a little task to do until he gets back. I’m hold on to that. I dont do journal, but maybe I should find something to read.
      @subandi:I don’t think my Sir will be happy with me spanking myself…He likes me to wait for him

      Thank you Ladies for your replies, I really appreciate it. I think I will try to think this as a challenge to go against my need and wait for Sir, sorta like the O denials I think. Hope I will stay strong enough to make it thru.
      XOXOX

  • Veruca

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    Hey Sub_kitten_411,
    Welcome!
    I have not had to deal with this situation, but I was wondering if your Sir gave you daily tasks and rituals to help you feel connected to him while he is gone?
    Also, do you journal? That might help to get your feelings down on paper and then when he gets back, you can read it to him. Or you if you are able to talk to him on the phone, maybe read it to him then?
    We are here to subport you! Hugs!
    Smooches,
    V

  • Unknown Member

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    When you are missing things like spankings…ask your Sir if you can do it yourself and make him a sexy video of yourself doing it to send him. It’s not quite the same but you will at least have a way to get the connection with him. I’m a long distance subbie most of the time right now…I totally get it. Good luck!

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