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Our Formal Acceptance
Sir had been out of town for several days and so I decided I wanted a nice surprise when he came home. My goal was to get my nails done the day he way supposed to be home, be groomed in all the right places, and be kneeling naked in our bedroom lit with candles. It sounds really cheesy but I am a hopeless romantic and this is what I wanted. I wanted him to come into our bedroom, after arriving home, to find me kneeling and waiting for him. It would be a surprise but the environment would add the intimacy of the moment we were about to share. So besides being romantic there was a purpose to the candles. As it turns out they left earlier than expected which meant they arrived home earlier than I thought. So instead of him arriving to me kneeling he arrived to an empty house and I pulled up about 2 minutes later. I was so very happy to see my Sir but I was also kind of crushed my plan had not worked out the way I wanted it too. My whole plan was about building the intimacy and creating a moment neither of us would forget, how was I going to do that now? Of course with my Sir having been gone for 4 long days we quickly found our way to the bedroom. After we were done we were talking about our plans for the evening and I decided I would not let this change of plans interrupt what I already had planned. I turned off our light and turned on our bedside lamp which has 3 light settings; which replaced the candlelight nicely. I position my Sir where I wanted him on the edge of the bed knees apart and asked him to close his eyes. Once he did I knelt between his legs, naked, and took his hands in mind and asked him to open his eyes. I have never felt more vulnerable in my entire life. All of the sudden I started to get nervous about my plans I was so sure about just a few moments earlier, but I dove into what I had planned to say. Before I could speak I started to cry because of the moment, because of what I was planning to say, because I had missed him so much, because of what all of this meant for us. I told him what my plan was (I had told him I had plan before he arrived) and I explained why it wasn’t ready when he got home. I told him how this was so important I didn’t want that to spoil this moment for us. I told him how I had doubted my plan to do our FA because of the fight (some of you know about it) we had just 2 days earlier but I told him how we would experience road bumps in our D/s relationship but they shouldn’t break or deter us just like in our marriage. I told him about the Subport I received from several Ladies on this group. I told him how I wanted this to enhance our marriage and make it even better than it already was. That I wanted this because I love and trust him and I know he will take care of me in this, that I wanted and needed his dominance. I poured my soul out to him, crying the entire time, about this and he just listened while I did so. When I was finished he told me how the advice I got from the Ladies here was great advice. How he loves me unconditionally and he agrees this will strengthen and better our marriage. He told me his intention was not for our argument to make me doubt our relationship or my plans and that he was very happy I decided to go ahead and do them. Of course he told me he would happily be my Sir and that he would always be my Sir. So even though my plans change our FA overall was very successful and definitely a moment I will remember forever.
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4 Replies
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Sereia thank you for sharing your FA with us ladies. Sometimes everything works out the way its supposed to. Your FA sounded beautiful and full of love. You will continue to grow and find strength in your marriage and in your new Dynamic, its get stronger and more emotional as you keep growing. I just told my sir tonight I wish we would have found this dynamic earlier in our marriage.. but he told me all that matters is that we have it now. I wish you both congratulations and remember its a growing experience there will be bumps and bruises (pun intended) but how you build your foundation will help get you past the bumps and bring on more beautiful bruises.
Congrats and Hugs
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Sweetness,
I wish we had started sooner but we were just never in the right place. We’ve had so much going on since we got married. I am excited we can do this now. I realized after our FA was all said and done I put a lot of extra stress on myself because I wanted it to be perfect. Even though it didn’t go how I had planned it really was perfect for us and it had nothing to do with the environment is was everything we shared with each other.
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That was beautiful, bumps and all. Your Sir sounds like a very special gentleman, and the two of you are off to a lovely start. Thank you for sharing this wonderful moment with all of us.
Congratulations! ??
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He really is an amazing man. I know I’m a little biased but regardless I am very lucky to have him. I am very excited about this journey for us and what it brings.
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