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Celebrate the Holidays D/s – m Style
It’s that time of year again. Let’s have some holiday fun with our Sirs.
Let’s give him a little gift everyday leading up to Christmas.
The intent of this little assignment is to spoil him a little, and express to him how much you love & appreciate him. Some items are easy & inexpensive; some, not so much. If you are tight on finances, feel free to use an alternative. It’s about the intent of that particular day’s assignment. And by all means, if you do have alternatives, feel free to share!
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Dec 1: husDom Bedside Table: This will make a great Christmas gift for your Sir. It is a work in progress during the month. Make a plan today to design your Sir’s drawer. Make your list of what you want to include in his drawer. Stock it up. If there is currently a drawer, take inventory and restock. Or add items to it. You may need to keep it off limits for him during the month, just gently reassure him he will have access under the bow come Christmas Eve.
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Dec 2nd: 25
days of submissive panties: One way to
connect to your submissive feminine side is to buy some new sexy panties. Pick the jeweled colors of Christmas, plaids,
satin, lace, sparkle, and of course, some black thong panties. If you watch for sales, you can do this
rather inexpensively online. -
Dec 3rd: Frosty
Nipples: Frosty the Snowman is a true
winter favorite. Today, all subMrs. should find a way to make a print of their nipples with a frosty & cold
element. Make a boob print on a
window/mirror with oil, frosting, paint, or just take a pic & send to your
Sir. You must keep it frosty, so be sure
to use some element of cold. Our Sirs love
a good erect nipple pic texted to them – add on as you wish. -
Dec 4th: Fresh
& Faux New Bed Linens: As the
weather gets cooler, we tend to want to snuggle in a bit more. What’s more snuggly than a new set of flannel
sheets. Wash them up and make them
fresh. But also add a scented candle or
air freshener to the boudoir – if you get a white background holiday print set
of sheets, get a peppermint scented candle.
Red – cinnamon/apple. Green –
pine. Plaid – Christmas
cookies/buttercream/vanilla. Always a
wonderful thing to christen those new sheets in the most delicious ways! You can also include some faux fur
pillows/throws on your bed which can be used in other places throughout the
winter. Match your panties to your
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Dec 5th: Cover
your husDom in kisses!: This is your
chance to go find (at least) three lip colors that mean Christmas to you, maybe
the colors on your Christmas tree. Make
sure to put down a play sheet and ask your Sir to lay down on it. Then kiss him from head to toe. Make a special pit(penis) stop, and put some
rings or Christmas Wreaths around it. Make a design all over him or just cover him
all over with your kisses. Then take a
pic. He will love this reminder year
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Dec 6th: Christmas
Lace Bondage: Wear your lace panties and
purchase some lace for a blindfold & ties.
You can make your own lace blindfold.
Tonight, show your Sir your Christmas lace & enjoy some Christmas
lace bondage. -
Dec 7th: Animal
Instincts: Find a new fragrance for
him. This may mean you scoping out your
favorites beforehand & then taking him shopping to see which one fits him.
Find the one that makes you WET! And
then encourage him to wear it! Some guys
may be like some of us, and save wearing fragrances for special occasions. Wear your fragrance – it doesn’t do anyone
any good sitting in a bottle on your shelf. Enjoy! -
Dec 8th: : D|s – M ornament: On this day, find an ornament that means D|s
– m to you. It can be as simple as a
black or red ornament. You can make one
yourself. Wrap it in rope or twine. Make it special and about you and your Sir’s
journey. Make it fun. And a secret on the tree! -
Dec 9th: Mittens
& Panties: Find some mittens that
match your panties. Maybe even a sexy
fur hat, or even a santa cap. Set the
scene & start a fire, get out your fur blanket & pillows. Share a nice bottle of wine. Turn on some old Christmas tunes and enjoy
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Dec 10th: Dust off a D|s implement: Today, find a “toy” that’s been gathering dust for whatever reason. Wrap it up in Christmas paper & give it to your Sir. Play with it tonight when you go to bed.
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Dec 11th: Christmas Mani-Pedi: Go get a fabulous manicure/pedicure, Christmas colors that match your panties. Maybe get a different nail shape, ie) stiletto nails to go with your stiletto heels.
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Dec 12th: Cheers
to Christmas Desserts: Find your
favorite goblets/glasses or buy some new Christmas ones. Make a yummy dessert to use during playtime
together. Feed him. Make a plan with him how to use it. Have fun with it. (Hey – this could even work out well with the
latest journal “Frosty” journal assignment, hint hint). -
Dec 13th: Santa
Hat & Panties: Go get a Santa hat,
match it with a pair of new panties.
Maybe get him a Santa Hat. Sit on
Santa’s lap & see what happens, especially if you’ve been a bad, bad, bad
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Dec 14th: Naughty
or Nice – your choice: Make your Sir 10
Naughty or Nice Christmas Sticky notes.
Write naughty or nice things on them.
Stick them wherever he spends a few minutes each day – his car, his
briefcase, his mirror, his pillow, his closet, his dish at dinner, his
underwear… Use your imagination! -
Dec 15th: Twinkle
lights: Get some Christmas lights &
hang them in your bedroom. Hang them
across your ceiling, maybe along your headboard, or string them around the
bedposts. Use them wherever you need a
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Dec 16th: Body
glitter: Get out your body glitter, make
your body gleam & glow for your Sir tonight. If you want to really get messy: Get some large pieced glitter (small pieces
are more messy & leave more residue) and pour it on your body. Take pics & send to your Sir. Be careful not to get it too close to the
bits – wear a panty. Maybe, let your Sir
play with you and the glitter, put down a play sheet and have some fun! -
Dec 17th: Peppermints:
A candy peppermint in your bra to sweeten your nipples. A peppermint patty, warmed in a dish and
massaged on the skin (be sure to check temp – you don’t want it too hot). Peppermint oil, be careful where you put the
oil experiment and test on your skin before play. -
Dec 18th: Get
stoned with your Sir: Okay, not what you
were thinking but this spa treatment is heavenly. You can schedule a massage and get stoned
together, or you can find a home set. Or
try getting a few nice smooth stones (from the store) and heat them in WARM
water. Experiment! Enjoy! -
Dec 19th: Wrap
yourself in ribbons. Or you can get some
help! -
Dec 20th: Ceremonial
Body Scrub Scene. Find a nice comforting
body scrub, or make your own. Draw a
bath, and apply the body scrub to your Sir.
Massage his shoulders and help him relax. Or choose the shower, and do a full body
exploration with the scrub.
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