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Calling all Subs! Scene help!
Hello all,
I am nervously anticipating my first “real” scene with Sir (this Sunday, as everybody will be out of the house) Im extremely nervous as I am excited, I’m sure like most are ;).
We have played around with very light bondage, and sexual spanking before, but I have come to the understand that a scene is definitely more sensual, intense, intimate, and emotional.
Is there any tips that anybody has to give on how I can remain calm and not drive myself mad with nervousness. Maybe any tips on how to interact when participate in a scene.
I know a scene is a time in which I give all of my body and my mind to my Sir, but it anybody has any tips about anything involving a scene, please share!
Ha-ha oh boy, this will be interesting, I can’t wait to update on how I did.
Thank you all!
<3 MWP
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2 Replies
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Im still new myself, only 5-6 scences under my belt but First I’d say you have to relax. Clear your mind and just feel. I have a very hard time with this but when my mind starts to stray I just concentrate on my breathing (like meditation). My Sir doesnt like to talk a lot yet so I usually get ear plugs and a blindfold. I actually like this helps me focus on the feeling part. But overall I think relaxing before the scene and during is the part we subs have to concentrate on. Allow him to guide you and trust him.
Good Luck!
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It is normal to feel nervous before a scene. Take a few breaths to calm yourself. Or do something that relaxes you and put yourself in a calm state of mind. It helps a lot.
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