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Brattiness shows itself.
As like every other lady here… told I have been told “your being a real BRAT!” Boy, do I hate hearing that… but when I hear that, my submission does NOT come out to play… instead it runs for the hills. I take my “brattiness” and run with it… whether it be, Sir bumps into me, i get very “ugh whatever”. My submission is out the door, over the hills, and already moved on to riding a camel loaded down silver and gold… AKA: If i can be bratty and get away with it, without punishment, or discipline.. well i guess i’m going to be bratty. And for the most part, that is not something i enjoy. I don’t enjoy setting the mood, for arguments, disagreements, and little snippy comments… who does? But lately my brattiness has come to show its form.. A LOT. I could punish myself! Well, let me tell you… i can try and justify my brattiness for whatever reasons.. 1. “i don’t feel good” – Classic 2. “I’m not a morning person” – oh boo hoo get over it MWP! and 3. “I don’t feel your dominance”
I have come to realized… yes there are vanilla things, old habits, and pet peeves that get in the way of submission…. but that doesn’t mean i have the right to take it away from my Sir just because “I’m not a morning person”… because i know.. this brattiness attack will follow me throughout the entire day, dropping havoc wherever it can. My brattiness needs a good kick in the butt!
My brattiness has led me to the wrong hill lined with gold and silver… who knew… fools gold…
Being a brat is not necessarily a bad thing either… but when brattiness shows itself, on almost a daily basis like with myself.. I am a frequent user of excuse #2 (I’m not a morning person)…. it builds, and builds, and builds.. until finally.. it explodes! and mine exploded.. and it sucks haha..
Now it might seem like i am rambling… or you might be asking yourself “why did she even post this?”.. i posted this because when i was being told i was being a brat… i always replied to Sir, “I’m not being brat, your just in a bad mood.” Well, i realize now.. Sir was never in a bad mood, i let my vanilla attitude get mixed in with our D/s Lifestyle.. I have made it over a mini hurdle i have been dealing with since day 1.. I could never admit when i had a sucky attitude.. and now I can.
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Subtastic post lady just the way you wrote it. I personal loved it. Point made and it was fun to read. Plus it made you figure out what you need to do to change yourself before you let your brat loose and to think before you speak.
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Haha thank you LT… Like I said earlier, I was in some mood this morning… And I had this sarcastic time about me so I just had to write it. It felt good!
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I can totally relate to this! Being submissive doesn’t always come naturally to me, yes I want to please Sir, but at the same time I can be very stubborn and bitchy when in a mood. Not good. I’m starting to be able to overcome that, albeit slowly, but we have to start somewhere right! Being able to admit it is a big step and hopefully it will get better everyday. Well done lady!
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I am definitely one of the brattiest subs. Especially morning time.. I am like a dragon who has just been stabbed… Like really? What the hell do you think that’s going to do to me besides piss me off even further LOL! But I am getting better slowly but surely.. (at least I like to think so!)
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I enjoyed reading this post. Think it would do me good to take some of it to heart. I am definitely NOT a morning person either! I get up because I have to, but I don’t like to speak too much or interact a lot the first hour or two (morning cuddles being the exception). I can see myself get bratty if I’m told to do this and do that in the morning, or if I feel the slightest provoked.
In other cases I get bratty because I feel cornered or put on the spot. It’s never okay to corner someone, and a good Dom wouldn’t do that intentionally, and you might just be perceiving it wrong. But if feeling cornered, I guess the trick is to learn to verbalise it in a respectful manner, during downtime. Not react with brattiness. That will be a big issue for me, as I’m known to lash out, and it’s something I work on all the time. The term “pet” fits me extremely well: care for me the right way, and I’m an excellent companion. But even the most well trained pet will bite if it gets scared. It’s a defence mechanism. I need to learn to control that.
You’re growing a lot, MWP. It’s great to follow from the sideline 🙂
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