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Bella’s Story
I’m Bella and my HusDom is Mr. Lab. We’ve been together for 16 years and married for almost 13 years. We met on a blind date. We went out on a Friday and it went so well we went out Saturday too. 😊I knew he was something special when he made me laugh the first time I talked to him and he brought me apples from his dads apple trees and homemade jelly his mom made. Back then I never imagined myself settling down in a small town and marrying a farmer but now I can’t imagine life any other way. We have 3 children. Our first born son watches over us from heaven and his sister is 8 and brother 6. We live in central Illinois and I’m an audiologist. So, what brought us to D/s M. Between having and raising our kids and years of taking depression meds my libido was non existent. Looking back I realize that our marriage turned into more of a friendship/roommate relationship over those 9 years. My poor husband. I tell him he’s a saint for putting up with me all those years. About a year ago I started watching this movie on tv (not fsog that came later😉)and it somehow opened up my eyes. The relationship the main characters had was such a strong bond and deep love. It made me remember what we used to have that had slowly disappeared over the years. I wanted it back. I craved it. I started to feel like a woman again not just a mom. Oh, and I wanted sex again. Lots of it. Soon after I started reading FSOG I started researching D/s lifestyle but that was just about the kink. It really wasn’t until I joined submrs and started reading and talking with others that I realized this is what I’ve been looking for. Being submissive is part of who I am. I love everything about it. We haven’t been doing this very long but even in the short amount of time my Sir and I have never had talks like we do now. We’ve never been closer. I can’t wait to see what the future has in store for us.
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Bella, I love this intro. It sounds like your Sir is a romantic with those first two presents. I love how D/s-M relationships bring about strong bonds and deep love between the couple and I am tickled you found the website and are experiencing that first hand for yourself! I love love!
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Thank you for sharing your beautiful love story! You met on a blind date? The way you met and his thoughtfulness in bringing you things that were important to him and his family — so romantic! “I can’t wait to see what the future has in store for us” — your hopefulness and optimism shine through in what you wrote! 🙂
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