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Anticipating Sir's Needs
As a new sub, I need help with anticipating my Sir’s needs. This is difficult because he’s a new Dom and doesn’t know, yet, how to express his needs. For example, he’s been stressed about work, but I really didn’t know how bad. We were sitting on the couch today and I started running my fingers through his hair (something I know he loves) He cuddled into me like it was the best thing ever. Then when I stopped after a little bit, he actually moved my hand back to his head and told me to please keep going; it was helping him relax and take his mind off of everything. I just wish I could have anticipated his needs so much earlier.
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This is Probably my biggest flaw. I am very take care of it all even when I Have my tween on. I forget that I need to be more attuned to Daddykins need for soothing. Does that make sense.
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Yes Babykins, it does. I think being in the mommy/wife role and then what our husDoms can do for us, we forget about them. So how do we get to where we’re anticipating their needs. That’s the kind of sub I want to be. Would love to hear others advice.
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