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An anal cautionary tale…
Let me tell you about our play time last night
I have written about our ‘sex’ jar in another post. Last night Wolf drew out anal play/double penetration, one of my favs! He went to our toy cabinet and got my favorite anal plug and told to put it in to get ready. After inserting the plug I sat on my pillows at Wolf’s feet. (Old knees don’t kneel well so this is our compromise.) After finishing the TV show we were watching, Wolf changed chairs and I went to kneel in front of him. Next he had me kneel on our bed so he could remove the anal plug. He said “Oh you’ve already removed it?” WHAT? NO I DIDN’T REMOVE IT!!! I probed the area and, sure enough, somehow the plug has gone completely inside me!!!!! I felt the panic rise quickly but Wolf but a hand on my back and told me not to panic in a very calm voice and I felt the panic recede. He attempted to reach in and remove the plug, didn’t work. He got me standing, led me to the toilet and told me to sit down and try to push it out. Thanks to my wonderful Husdom I was not in panic mode at all and this worked in just a few seconds. Needless to say, our evening did not turn out the way we intended but I sat on Wolf’s lap for a long time while he told me what a good girl I was for listening to him and not letting my inner Bitch out to play.So, what did we do wrong? Nothing exactly wrong but there are several things that contributed to the situation.
The flange on the anal plug is the same size as the largest portion of the plug. It does have a narrow neck but the flange could be bigger.
When I sit on the floor I draw my knees up, this puts a lot of pressure directly on the anus. Didn’t even think about that before, but I won’t be sitting on the floor next time.
After sitting on the floor, standing up I think essentially pushed the plug further in. I didn’t notice it at the time but I think that’s what happened.So what will we do differently next time?
I won’t be setting on the floor with the anal plug in any more.
I will be adding a string to the plug before I insert it again. (this will just make me feel better)We have been doing anal play for a long time and this is the first mishap that we have ever had. I am fine, no harm done, just a lesson learned. Hopefully you can learn from our mishap as well.
The other amazing thing that happened was that I listened to Wolf and let him take care of me. I could feel the panic rising and he shut it down…completely. He took the situation in hand and dealt with it. I love that man!
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Thanks for sharing! I have always been nervous about this happening, so Sir and I have always purchased anal plugs where the flange is more of a rectangular or long hook shape. I am so glad you were able to get it out and that you are OK! Now hopefully you two can laugh about it!
Smooches,
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There have already been a lot of laughs. And the night ended with a nice vanilla play time.
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This is one of my fears. My sir and i have just started with anal play and I really enjoy it. He is wonderful, he researched the topic and gave me some information to read as well. We went together and bought 2 different sizes. I expressed my nerve on “loosing” the plug. The first time he helped me , keeping his fingers at the base of the flange, this was very reassuring. I am more comfortable with it now, and can insert it w/o his assistance. I still get nervous about “loosing” it, so he checks on me frequently while i am am wearing it reassuring me.
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Great post Pearl! I have to say as a former ED and PACU RN, please subbies, be mindful of what goes into your anus. Yes, things can get “sucked” in and difficult to expel, requiring surgery. I lived/worked in an area that was very heavy in the LGBT and Kink scene and some of the things that were inserted into orifaces were quite surprising. (A shower head, really?—off to the OR!) As Pearl mentioned, always make sure the flange is larger than what is inserted. If using beads, make sure that there is a good amount of ‘tail’ left out. The first letter of SSC is Safe. 🙂 Sorry…once a nurse, always a nurse.
Hugs,
Bliss
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