Positions Count?

This topic contains 4 replies, has 5 voices, and was last updated by  Jsbunny *Prema/JayDom 8 months, 1 week ago.

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  • #27063

    Registered subMrs™

    Do you all find that the same toy on the same area can feel completely different depending on if you are standing, kneeling, bent over, laying down?

    I am relatively new to pain play and this discovery is kind of surprising to me. I did not expect that a flogger would feel so different with my hands above my head than when I was bent over and my hands are on a desk.

    What have your experiences been?

  • #27441
     Veruca MOD/Mr. Cain 

    Premium subMrs™

    I find that depending on which toy Sir is using, that yes, different positions can feel differently. I wonder if it has something to do with the change of mindset that occurs when our position is changed. Standing makes me concentrate more that being strapped down on our spanking bench. Hands up or out means I have to focus on my balance more than hands down or behind my back…that is just my thinking on it, lol!


  • #28956

    Registered subMrs™

    Yes, totally agree with V. My experiences are same especially with regards to standing and/or being tied standing with legs spread stretched barely touching floor. The focus so shifts from the pain of the area being impacted. Similarly when He holds the instruments He next plans to use on me in my mouth. Also when He has things to balance in my hands while He is using crop, flogger, etc

  • #29533
     Lilla F/Mr.A 

    Registered subMrs™

    This has been on my mind a lot lately. Been thinking it was “only” connected to form of the day but I will have to pay more attention to the various positions.

  • #31454
     Jsbunny *Prema/JayDom 

    Premium subMrs™

    For me it’s how the skin is pulled in different positions. No matter the implement, a smack on the ass standing is different than bent over and still different from laying down with ankles up over my head. Its different positions that change the tauntness of the skin and muscles. When my skin and muscles are loose, relaxed, I can settle in and take more, the impact doesn’t feel as much. If my skin is pulled tight, muscles tense, I feel the impact higher or more intensely. Of course mindset is always a factor too.

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