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Today's Hot Topic
Today’s hot topic made me really think…so much so, that I couldn’t get all of my thoughts together in chat, so I decided to do it here. LK asked:
Today’s HOT TOPIC : Fueling your D/s and your submission…. How do you do it. What keeps you inspired? Also, lets start to talk about ENERGY…. What type of energy do you put off? That energy is what you attract. Victim/Conflict energy? or Responsibility/Acceptance? It effects you and your D/s… Lets talk on Chat about it all today..Whats your D/s energy? What kind do you want? What kind are you building?
That was a lot to mull over! So here is goes…I need to break it down:
How do I fuel my D/s and submission?
I fuel my submission by behaving as submissive as much as I possibly can. I call him Sir. I make sure to greet him when he gets home (or as soon as I do if I get home after he does). I make his evening coffee for him (something he NEVER asked me to do). I make his plate most nights (again, never asked me to do). I kneel in front of him when he is sitting on the couch until he calls me up next to him (another thing I was never asked to do). I keep in mind the very few rules he has set for me and try to follow them to the best of my ability. Last, but not least, I resolve to be at peace when he makes a final decision.What keeps me inspired?
Down time keeps me inspired. I can be honest with Sir about how I am feeling and what I am needing from him. We take the time to look back and see how far we have come and look forward to where we would like to be. Playtime keeps me REALLY inspired! As we work on our “craft”, it inspires me to do more, want more and I know I will ultimately GET more when Sir is ready to give it to me. Interacting with people, here on submrs, inspires me also; even though my dynamic is unique to Sir and I, having subport and getting ideas from others is always a plus!What type of energy do I put off?
I will not lie. I do at times have the tendency to put off conflict energy in my every day/vanilla life. I am very strong willed and will not be pushed around, so in the vanilla world, I put off an energy of “don’t mess with me”. In my D/s world, it is different. With Sir, whether we are out or when we are at home, I am trying very hard to now put off a responsibility/acceptance energy. I did not get there over night, but with mirroring and being really honest with myself, I knew I would never get from Sir what I had asked for if I stayed combative and bratty. So I worked on myself (still have a lot of work to do too!) and became the submissive I wanted to be for Sir…and in return, he started to show signs of becoming (and he is putting great effort into growing in his role still) the Dom I was desiring from him.What is my D/s energy?
I don’t know, lol. I guess it is confident, excited and growing.What kind do I want?
Unshakable! Intense! Loving! Passionate!What kind our we building?
Respectful. Accepting. Loving. Strong. -
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I love your share. I love how you fuel your submission and are inspired. I also greet my Sir at the door and I take off his shoes for Him and have dinner ready for him when he gets home or shortly after. Here is my share.
My share on today’s topic… How do I fuel my D/s and submission? I will kneel for Sir when we are home alone and at night before going to bed and wait for him to give me permission to get into bed. I also do my daily chores/task and do whatever else he tells me to do, anything to make it easier on him, since he is the sole provider right now… What keeps me inspired? I know what I do makes him happy and less stressed. I want to be the best wife and the kind of wife he always wanted. My Sir is very old fashion.. we joke that he is a young man with an old soul… What type of energy do I put off? Before I would say negative energy… was depressed, miserable, and somewhat happy, we were both stressed out with school, work, and bills, just making it paycheck to paycheck, but over the past 2 years Sir has gotten a great paying job even though we have to travel a lot for it, we are both now less stressed, happier, and more positive about our lives now and the future. Now that we both have positive energy and think positive its effect has been better and has help our D/s and me grow more. We both are I believe the responsibility/acceptance type of energy. We both have responsibility to each other and we accept that… What’s you D/s energy? I really not sure what it is, but I will like to say it is some type of positive energy. I want to work hard on keeping the positive vibe we have going now. I have notice that when we both are positive, it seems to make us happier and we have more fun and spend more time with each other. Life is hard sometimes and bad, but just look for the positive in the hard and bad times in the end it is all worth it. Live, Laugh, and Love, and even cry if you have to or if it helps. To be positive and have positive energy, I believe you have to think positive. Love and Hugs to all.
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