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Collaring Ceremony
Oh boy! Sorry it took so long for me to update everyone, it has been a long weekend but in a great way. Ok so…..
I took the kids to school Friday morning…I was a nervous wreck. I was going to write my vows but sir woke up before I left-I think he was nervous too. When I got home I immediately got into a bath, shaved all over, lotioned up, did my hair and make-up. I knew the make-up was not going to be on very long but I needed to feel confident for this.
I was instructed to put on my black silk lacy robe and undies. My stomach is in knots and I can hardly function at this point. I do as I am told, shaking the whole time. I am then instructed to sit on the bed-we are not very good at being fancy or movie like but he was already tearing up. He retrieves my collar box and his vows, he sits on the bed next to me and starts to cry. He reads his vows which I will keep private but the gist is that this collar represents his commitment to me, his protection over me, and his promise to always be the Dom I need and that he wants to be, even in public (which is hard for him and a space I tend to “act up”). The gist of mine was that it is an honor to wear his collar and may it serve as a constant reminder of the hold he has on me, a constant feeling of his loving, guiding, correcting hand on my neck. It would serve as a reminder to me of all the work we have done and where we are destined to go.
We are both bawling like babies at this point and we kiss for a long time. He instructs me to lay down on the bed, he blindfolds me. I feel a soft long fabric on my wrist-“Bend your legs My Little and put your hands down by your side”, He is tying my wrists to my ankles…..the velvet Christmas ribbon is pulled tight and forces my legs open wide, exposed as he pulls my robe away from my body. I am being kissed all over, ever so slightly a finger rubs me up and down my entire body. Not a spot is missed with his mouth or finger…he makes his way to my neck…that spot..that spot that makes me cum with just the flick of his tongue. He stays in that spot for what seems forever, I can not move, my chest is heaving and my back is arching but his weight is keeping me in my place. Just as I am about to cum he stops….he licks down my body and puts a massive assault on my clit-upside down as his chest is still on my abdomen…I can’t move….I need to move…the pressure is building…..one finger…two fingers….in/out/up/down…..I release all over the bed but he is not done. He has not had his fill of me yet and continues his feast, his face is no doubt soaking wet as he sticks his hand up and puts his finger in my mouth…..mmmm I love sucking on his fingers. I cum again, I can’t breathe, my chest is tight, I am starting to space out….I feel him, I hear him, I make noises when I can but it is all a fog of intense pleasure and intimacy. He places himself between my legs and enters me slowly, pulling my knees outwards as he enters deep inside. I can not take it, I immediately cum again and again as he slides in and out…just as gentle as his tongue and fingers were on my body. I am convinced that slow slippery sliding is way more intense than I could have ever imagined. My blindfold comes off from the thrusting and his eyes are dark and his pupils take up the entire color of his eyes. He says one phrase…..” there it is”…..his way of acknowledging the Dom, the change in his feelings, his body, his mind…..it is no more about my pleasure anymore…the rest of this is for him. He takes me hard, not a moment of eye contact is lost. When he is done he unties me and my limbs fall limp…I can’t move or speak. He sees that I am breathing and looking around even though it’s obvious my eyes are not focusing on much of anything. He cleans me up and covers me up. Tells me how much he loves me and how much this process has meant to him and our relationship.
We spent the rest of the day we had before the kids got home just cuddling and rubbing and grinning from ear to ear. He loves having a symbol to see every time he looks at me. I love feeling it. Saturday was a basic day, we didn’t do much as the kids were home but the energy is even more than before. We stayed up super late last night and watched movies and wrapped presents….we slept in until 930…When I woke up I started to cry….He has to go to work today…..it’s over….we can’t live in a bubble as much as I want to. I have orders to fill and work to be done….I don’t want to…I want to see you, touche you, kiss you and just be with you. You feel it, you don’t want to go either….you take me on the couch-much like Friday but rough and beautiful, you assault my pussy again with your mouth but then force me to sit up and you grab my hair and fuck me in the mouth…I love giving you head, I love the forced nature of making me gag, I love the way you taste…hehe you’re covered in my cum again sir…..You end the morning with 15 maintenance spankings on each bare ass cheek…I am crying and you understand but tell me that this is a normal emotional response to being so close and so intimate……he will miss me too but it will be ok. A kiss on the forehead and he is gone but unlike so many others I will get to see him tonight and tomorrow before work. I miss him….all the time.
I hope this is not too long or too detailed and I am horrible at grammar and punctuation but I had to spill. This was the perfect collaring ceremony for us and it really has changed his whole persona and we are now officially D/s-M and chin deep in TTWD and loving every single second of it. I have attached a picture of my day collar (pink) and my fancy collar that will eventually be paired with white lingerie or a first fancy night out.
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6 Replies
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My Little, what a beautiful account of an incredible collaring ceremony! You had me in tears. I could feel the emotion of the whole scene. Thank you so much for sharing!
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Thanks you. It was and still is very emotional but wonderful.
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I love this in so many ways!!! The intimacy and the bond you have with your Sir is what most people can only dream about. Yet, here we are LIVING this! It IS our magical reality!!! Remember to keep building your foundation, practice S.O.A.P., and always make time for Downtime. With work, your D|s-M will only get deeper and will continue to thrive.
I also adore your collars, especially the fancy one! I hope you get to wear that beauty very soon!
~subHugs!
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Thank you Submarie! Yes, we are much better at keeping DT now and working those foundations and are continuing to grow. It is crazy how this is our life! Thank you for all the encouraging words you and everyone else gives. It really helps to have this community! I can not wait to wear that one for sure ☺️
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I loved reading about your collaring ceremony. It was so beautiful! I thought we would have a beautiful ceremony as well and was stressing about it but my Sir surprised me one day and just ‘collared’ me. And everything changed after that. No words were spoken but there were a few tears on my part. I cherish our collar (He insists it is “OUR” collar). It truly took us into the higher protocol. I always felt I was in and out and in and out. My Sir felt that also. After the collar we were all in. Such a difference and I don’t think either of us expected this symbol to be so powerful. So happy for you and your Sir and warmest wishes for your D/s to grow and grow. hugs!
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☺️ Thank you Elskling. I would have been ecstatic with a surprise no words collating too, that sounds wonderful. It’s so amazing how it can change everything. You think you are committed and something like this just totally enhances and changed your mindset. I’m glad we waited a long time to do it also because we needed the in and out and emotional breakthroughs to get here. We will have more I am sure but it’s approached much differently now.
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