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Valentines Vixen D/s mindset
So I was chatting with everyone about my 12 days of mindset that I did over Christmas.. I think mindset should be something us as submissive’s can always contribute to…let’s feed those men’s mindsets as much as possible!! With that in mind I bring you Valentines Vixens!!
(as opposed to Christmas’s 12 days of mindset)
You can be your Husdom’s Valentine’s vixen with 13 days of ordinary items to contribute to mindset up until the 14th!! Here are some of my ideas and you can add your own!! Anything you see on an everyday basis around the house …. if you can turn it D/s it works!!
1. the wooden spoon- we have two with my sub name on them now.. but anytime he sees a wooden spoon in the kitchen that’s all he thinks of or sees…
2. rubber gloves.. these are used in our house for cleaning and medicinal purpose.. but once I brought them into the bedroom, he never looked at them the same.
3. washable children’s markers.. seriously I knew he’d see these all over our house. So it was perfect. He wrote anything he wanted on me.. he chose to write things he wanted me to do and I couldn’t wash them off until I did them.. he had fun with that one..
4. the wartenburg wheel.. ok not everyone has one of these.. but get one, because omg. He will love what it does to you .
5. a feather duster. I got bought two new.. one to hang downstairs for the house and one for just our room.. playtime sensations…
6. a fly swatter… no it doesn’t hurt.. but when it’s just sittin around the house, after he’s wacked your ass with it a few times, he won’t care whether it hurts he will just want to spank ya!!
7. your favorite belt… you wear it all the time.. have him tie you up with it.. restrain you and tease you until you explode.. every time you put that belt on after that.. you’ll both remember it.. and that’s what it’s all about. keeping that mindset as often as possible.. everywhere you look..at all the everyday things.
8. If you haven’t already done it.. his favorite work tie. let him blind fold you tie up up, or you can wear it when kneeling naked.. dealers choice.
9. candles- so my sir loves a certain scent on me in certain places and all over in general.. as it turns out I have a few candles that smell like that scent… I burn them and it hits him every time like wall.. he loves it and his wheels start turning (mine is a flower scent so maybe see which flower scent he likes the best etc. to find a matching candle.) you get the idea
10. his own watch… have him time you.. it’s a game..he has to time you with his watch….. pick a topic, perhaps two.. perhaps a BJ… how fast can you make him finish or how long can you go??? he will think of this when he looks at his watch each day.
11.your lipstick… literally leave your lips all over his body. in every place he loves… or just have him put it on your lips.. he may not be good at it.. but when hes done..he gets to show you where your lips now belong with pretty lipstick.. you get the idea
12. do you have a picture hanging in your house of you? a good day, a nice outfit? wear it again on one of your vixen days.. let him go savage on you…or spend the day slowly exploring each other…have the best time- when he walks past that picture each day and sees that outfit, he will remember that.
13. pillows- on this day you remind him of your submission… you kneel on a different pillow from each room, in each room, at least once. He needs to see your submission everywhere at least once.. something he can look over across the room at that pillow and see your naked body on it kneeling, even though the room is full of people.. but that pillow reminds him that you are his submissive and you crave his dominance and mindset every day.. everywhere…
Happy hunting ladies… you can have these ideas or go find some in your own house, the roof’s the limit!! -
11 Replies
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Thanks Charmed. This is an amazing idea I love it!!!
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This is so wonderful Charmed. Thank you for sharing. It has sparked something in my mind. I might have to pick a different time but this will happen. Love!!!!!
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charmed,
I love these ideas! Sir is taking me on his business trip and we will be in a hotel for 6 nights! He led our Christmas Kinkmas adventures so I want to make Valentines a week he will never forget. I will be incorporating many of your ideas. Thank you so much for the inspiration!
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Such an awesome list! Thanks Charmed for posting it. We get so inundated with Christmas so early but I feel like Valentine’s day creeps up on me. Now my wheels are turning.
Terenya
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Great idea! We usually don’t do much for Valentine’s but this sounds like something fun to do.
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I started this after that chat 🙂 I gave him markers 1st. He enjoyed drawing pictures. Later when we were on the couch he grabbed an ink pen and wrote the word Love on my leg and mentioned using the markers again at another time telling me what he wanted to draw and where. LOVE it!!
Yesterday I gave him an adjustable/locking curtain rod and told him he could make a spreader bar. Today it’s a wooden spatula from the kitchen.
I have a bag with a big heart on it and some red tissue paper. I told him to save the bag and paper and there would be something in it every day through Valentines.
I think it’s a hit! Lol
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Hisladybug,
I am so happy that it has worked out well for you as it did for me, YAY!!! 🙂 -
HisLadybug
I love the idea of the heart bag. I’m going to look for one to use. Thanks for the great idea👍
Jsbunny -
Charmedkarma great ideas for valentine
My first spanking was with the fly swatter and it hangs in our bedroom.
Its been a long time since it has been
used.
I will tie a red ribbon on it and a ballon from the dollar tree
Thanks you got the juices flowing
Hugs Fan -
Great ideas- Valentines is our “official” collaring anniversary- so anything to make it even more fun and special 🙂
Thanks for the encouragement-
Wench -
As always – you inspire me my friend!
Thanks Charmed.. I am busy incorporating this as we speak!Love xxxxx
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