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Intentionality
Greetings! I have been nervously trying to figure out my intro for the past several days. What do I say? What do I leave out? What happens if I word vomit all over the place and none of it makes sense (or with my luck someone takes offense)? My name is Sirsbeauty (or just Beauty). My husband and I met our freshman year of Bible College. After being friends for over two years, he FINALLY asked me out. I had had a crush on him since the moment we met. We were blessed to have read “Love & Respect” while we were engaged and had excellent premarital counseling. We married three weeks after graduation, which was 10 years ago this past May. And we have continued to be best friends (with benefits, lol) ever since. Sometime in the past year, via my addiction to fanfic reading (Beauty and the Beast, Harry Potter, the Hunger Games, etc, etc, etc), I discovered the world of D/s and it intrigued me. So I did some online searching. I shared what I found with my Sir. I explained what I liked and he agreed. But finding quality information amongst so much unwholesome and unhealthy information/practices was like trying to find a needle in a hay stack. So he told me give my searching a rest and I did. Sometime just after our anniversary I decided to try some of the things I had read in the fanfics with huge success! It was like a switch flipped in both of us and things got very kinky (for us) very quickly. Thankfully I remembered the one “needle” that I had briefly seen months earlier and showed him HusDom and SubMrs. We were both registered (he beat me to it, lol) within just a few days and were soaking it up. The past almost 4 months has been a wonderful and exciting journey for us! In many ways we were already 24/7 outside the bedroom because of our Biblical view of marriage, so we have been doing a lot of “in the bedroom” learning.
We have discovered that this D/s-M journey is about INTENTIONALITY. It has caused us to step up our game in our communication and our marriage. But it has also caused us to step up our game in our relationships with God, being more intentional in our faith, and to step it up as parents, too. These areas have always been solid but we want to move from settling for “good enough” to striving for great by being intentional. We are so grateful to LK and Mr Fox for creating a place that encourages the growth of strong, passionate marriages. And I have been blessed by how welcoming, supportive and helpful all the subs have been here. Thank you! -
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So glad you decided to do your intro!
I can feel the excitement of your new journey oozing (or maybe squirting, lol) from your finder tips as you typed out your words.
I look forward to getting to know you more in the chat room!
Smooches,
Veruca
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