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My Story
I want to start by saying that I feel that Formal Acceptance is a crucial step in the Ds/m. I was apprehensive when I first read about it. I was unsure if it was really necessary, after all my Sir and I where already starting to explore the dynamic out of the bed room,why would it be needed. I had read about it, I understood what it was but did not truly grasp the why until I did it. I was also nervous,if I did ask would he say no? We had been working on Ds/m, and I knew he was into it, but that doubt was still there. I participating in a chat with LK and discussed my nervousness, I heard from other subies about their FA and how wonderful they felt afterward and I wanted it badly. So begins my story of FA. It was just my Sir and I in the house, no distractions. I had just taken a shower and was standing there nude looking in the mirror, analyzing what was looking back at me. I almost asked my Sir a few times before to be my Dominate, but had chickened out each time. Looking at my reflection I fought with my self ” Do it ” “No it can wait” “Just do it Lady” “Maybe just wait one more day”. I looked over to my vanity and saw a 3″ wide pink satin ribbon that goes with one of my out fits. I thought to my self how I felt when I dress up for Sir; confident, Sexy, beautiful. Which was not how I was feeling as I stood there in the looking at my reflection. “I just need a little confidence”. I wanted to be nude when I asked, as had been discussed in chat,to show my body to Sir. To show him it is his and only his. But being naked, I loose my confidence. That is when the idea had hit me, That pink ribbon may be just what I need. I took that pink satin ribbon slid it across my back and pulled it around my breasts just covering my nipples. I tied it in a bow and centered it between my breast. The tails of the bow dangled down over my stomach, i could feel the softness caressing my skin.I put on my robe, took a deep breath and headed down stairs to find my Sir. There he was, sitting in his chair. As I crossed the room to him he looked at me and smiled. I knelt in front of him and slid my robe off my shoulders. There I was, kneeling infront of him in nothing but a ribbon, he leaned forward and started to speak. I stopped him (if i did not do this now, who knows when I would do it) and said there is something that I need to ask you. He stopped and leaned back and just looked at me. I took a deep breath and began, ” I fell silly and nervous , but I need to do this” I began to stutter and could not put my words together. It came out is a jumbled mess and I just kept saying, I feel so silly. My Sir stopped me, smiled and said “Lady, just say it.” With a deep breath I said “I want you to be my Dominate. I need to know that you want to be my Dominate”. He looked at me, put his hand under my chin and his thumb just under my lip. Lifting my head slightly he said “Lady, it would be my pleasure”. I was so relieved and happy. It was as if I had a weight lifted off me. He wanted to be my Sir, really be my Sir. He reached down and pulled on one of the tails of the bow, as the ribbon fell to the floor I felt free. He pulled me to his chest, caressing my back he whispered to me “Now, we play” That is where I will end my story. Needless to say it was a very memorable night that I will never forget. If you ask me know if I feel that formal acceptance is a necessary step, I will tell you YES!!! For me it marked the moment that he truly became my Sir, my Dominate.
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6 Replies
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Lady,
Thank you so much for sharing your story with us!! Your story is so beautiful! I can relate to the feeling of being free after doing the Formal Acceptance!! Its like I have no worries in the world anymore besides my sir and of course our children. The Formal Acceptance is a very crucial step within the D/s-m journey and it can be so freeing!
Lady you are not the only subbie that has felt like or worried that your Sir would say no when you do your FA. Many of us have felt that same way when asking. It can be nerve wrecking but it will be a moment within your D/s-m journey that you will never forget!
Congrats to you and your Sir on your FA! I am so happy for you both! I cant wait to chat with you more in chat!Best Wishes,
Luna
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Congratulations, I found also a very necessary step to grow in this dynamic. It changes everything and makes it real.
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Dear Lady,
Thank you for sharing this amazing story of your FA! When your Sir said, “Lady, it would be my pleasure.” I just melted. I look forward to reading more about your love story!!
Warm regards,
Belle -
That is awesome Lady!
Thanks for sharing and congratulations on your FA!
Smooches,
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Dear Lady,
What a beautiful story! To wrap yourself as a present for your Sir is a genius idea! I love it! I am sure you have inspired future subbies looking for ideas in asking for their FA how to present themselves. You took your nervousness and channeled it into determination. Everyone in the community is proud of you for your accomplishment! Congratulations!
Much Love,
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Congratulations! “Now we play” – shivers!
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