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Flying – Subspace
It has been a while since I have been on here and boy have I missed it! So much has happened in the last few months and now that the holidays are over and I can breathe again I am here to ask for your input and guidance. Well that is after I have caught up on all that I have missed. I can’t read posts fast enough!
First off I would like to ask about subspace. I realize it is different for everyone but I am hoping many of you will chime in to better help me understand what I have experienced. We have been doing D/S for about a year off and on as our schedules allow. I have experienced what I can only assume is subspace. To me it feels like flying. I can’t seem to formulate a better word for what I have felt the last few times we have played. It happened once during a scene but Sir pulled me out of it not realizing what happened. Most recently we had a rope scene where I slipped in to subspace so quickly I didn’t even know it was coming. He tied me in a Shibari style tie which may have lasted 10 mins then he went to grab the back of my neck and I started to feel very limp. When he picked me up to carry me to the other room I went completely limp as though I had passed out. He placed me on the couch and began trying to rouse me only I couldn’t speak or even move. I could see him and was aware that he was there but I could not show any signs that I was ok. Having seen it happen before this time he waited. He let me sit quietly and would check on me every few minutes. Sometimes I could open my eyes and other times I couldn’t. I stayed that way for at least 30 minutes. As I slowly came to I was able to speak but not move. After all my facilities returned to me I felt so completely drained. My Sir took good care of me and administered after care but it took a long time for me to be able to regain my strength and energy.
It happened once again while we were simply playing. The minute he touched the back of my neck with his hand I started to go under. There was no impact play, no ropes or orgasms. He was just touching me! This time i did not stay under as long but once again my recovery took several hours.
Has anyone else experienced this and if so how can aftercare be administered so that my recovery is not so long? How has your Sir responded when you go into subspace and does he let you stay there?
While I love the feeling of subspace it is somewhat concerning to us both when it happens. I know he has been very worried about me when it happens and because my recovery takes so long. I love how quickly it happens and that amazing feeling that comes with it but I also find it such a foreign feeling that it overwhelms me.
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Hello Cocoa glad to see you back lady! I do not believe you are experiencing subspace for the reason your Sir just touched the back of your neck only and it happened. I believe it’s more of a Catatonic effect. Please read this post written by LK I believe it is what is happening to you. https://submrs.com/submissive-feelings-sub-catatonics-homework/
Lt♥
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I found the article just after I posted! I read it and also had Sir read it. Thank you so much for the information and quick response.
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During past research I have comes across two kinds of subspace. One physical and one psychological or emotional. In the article it mentioned psychological subspace is rare but that writer had talked to a few subs who had experienced it and he’d seen it for himself. Some subs can drift off in just the presence of a Dom or just from a touch. It sounds far fetched the way I’m saying it but the article made more sense. I’ve read the blog on the catatonic affect and maybe it’s similar to that but still different. I couldn’t begin to tell you which it is in your case but it’s something to consider.
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Thank you LittleBear! I think I found the article you were discussing.
I do wonder how many other Subs this happens too? It was such a strong quick thing that I didn’t even realize it was happening. It does feel similar to subspace after a pain related scene but it was also much stronger. I can say that for me I do trust Sir and so I can see how easy it is for me to relax enough to slip into this state. I am just not sure how to recover when I am not prepared for it. It has happened in the middle of the day and I was unable to assist with the household responsibilities. I am lucky that Sir did not mind and took care of me and my responsibilities. I will try to be more aware and discuss with Sir what maybe leading up to these situations so we can avoid them when it is not appropriate.
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MMM I think it is different from Sub to sub …..
Once , we played I was soon tired I drifted off to sleep then Sirs…moves brought me a wake up LOL I thought for a brief moment subspace then realized I had indeed been soo relaxed I dozed off !
I have FLOWN-Sub-Spaced many times ; Thank you Sir …for me you will know it !! There is no mistaking it. hard flyies also bring me BIG time sub drop , especially if Sir is gone those next following days
Fly High ,
Curvey
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