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Thanksgiving
Lets think up some fun ways to show our submissivness to our Doms this week of thankfulness! Lets show our Doms how thankful we are for their effort in trying, or starting this journey with us! Regardless of how long you have been in this dynamic, there are always ways to show thankfulness! Here are a few ideas to help get the ball rolling….. each day this week, send a text/email/phone call/ or a morning communication of something your Dom does that makes you appreciate your relationship. When your Dom asks you a question, lower your eyes and say “yes Sir” to show respect. Stand to your Doms right hand side and sit on the right hand side at the thanksgiving dinner table. Make a game when in the kitchen, by grabbing objects and whispering how it could be used in the bedroom!
These are just a few ideas to start the week off right. What thoughts do you all have?! -
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I like the idea of leaving a text or note each day specifically about something I appreciate about him or the things he does.
Especially when it gets closer to the actual holiday – whether travelling somewhere, or cooking, being extra mindful of our reactions and keeping ourselves submissive rather than letting stress take over would be good. Definitely for me. That’s more a game of “what not to do”. I think perhaps also watching our Doms to notice when stress is causing him to act differently, and then choosing that moment to do something to help out would be good. A short back rub, offering to help out on something, etc.
Fun ways:
I’m cooking the meal (just for our family of 4, thankfully) for the first time, so I’ve been trying to figure out if I can manage to have him catch me cooking with just an apron on (at least on the bottom half). This without risking the teenagers coming in. Perhaps early in the morning…We are having whipped cream (out of a can) with our pie, perhaps the latter part of dessert can come in the bedroom with a different shaped plate….
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From a few conversations yesterday and today – perhaps find out about a family tradition he grew up with (for us, there are certain foods that always show up at holidays). Try to incorporate something new into your planning that honors his heritage or sparks a good memory of childhood.
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Hehe Meaux it would be very entertaining to hear you were busted by the kids. It would make a great story hehehe
We don’t have thanksgiving in Australia but I was just thinking last night of ways I could show him how much I have noticed his hardwork and how much I appreciate it.
I generally work late on Fridays. So after a long day at work, Sir is left to do dinner etc. My plan this Friday is to cook something Thursday night and stick it in the fridge. On Friday morning before I leave I am going to place a note thanking him for putting so much into our Ds on the bench. I will also mention that dinner is ready in the fridge and request he relax and enjoy a drink while the boys play. The note will be accompanied by a glass, his special rum and a beautiful red juicy apple. My sub name is apple because he is a cheeky begger and the name stuck. ❤?
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Love the idea of naughty uses for kitchen utensils KLB. What about naughty uses for food items?
The bringing something from his childhood into our traditions has me thinking too M.
Thanks for the ideas ladies.
I am thankful I met all of you xx
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