• Posted by hisanouk on at

    As I sit here and read through the forums trying to learn more about this lifestyle we all crave so much, I can’t help but think of how I (and a lot of others) have missed the mark.

    D/s isn’t about sexual desire, play time, or scenes… it runs so much deeper than the actions of intimacy. It’s the very definition of intimacy, true intimacy… to be fully known and to fully know with out fear of judgement or ridicule. To be fully accepted.

    This is what I am learning. Thank you to all the wonderful ladies that have talked with me and shared their learning experiencea with me. 🙂

    Can’t wait to fall deeper into love with my Sir. ♡

    sarabi replied 7 years, 10 months ago 4 Members · 3 Replies
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  • meaux

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    <3

  • Unknown Member

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    HA,

    thank you for the share ….B I N G O !!! It is that for us too …it is our marriage, our Love deeped for one another. The rest is the ICING on our our baked cake …as KLB says ! We have found after 2 years of this journey ; we also don’t really fit in once ” category ” we are full of lots of flavors and play !

    Hearts,
    CURVEY

  • sarabi

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    yes yes yes… I hear you.. thats what AMAZED me the most… for me it is a new relationship and if I think about it my LONG marriage was similar BUT.. even tho I am naturally submissive and my ex is naturally dominant… he never ever saw this or appreciated me and there was NO communication and certainly very little to no physical intimacy… to now be with a man who is so strongly dominant but could see my submissiveness from the first hello and who communicates with me so well.. and cares for me and appreciates me.. yes the sex is amazing… but its the connection and the emotional intimacy that I crave.. that I love.. that I treasure

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