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Preparation
How do you keep yourself mind/and body prepared for your Dom? I know some people have exercise and diet rules. I’m curious as to what you to to make yourself feel like you are your best self for Him/Her.
For example, I am required to always keep up on shaving and take my medicine and vitamins on a regular basis. In addition to this I make sure to take probiotics regularly to help with the health of my lady parts, cos let’s face it, Sir spends a lot of time there and I want that to be in optimal shape, too . I do yoga regularly and I make sure I drink A LOT of water.
However, I still feel like i should be doing more. Any ideas are welcome! “)
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Sounds like you’re doing great!
I would only say that if you think you need to be doing more, then ask your Sir, during downtime, if there is anything else he feels you need to be doing on a regular basis to be ready and presentable for him or that would please him. He is going to be the best source of information for on this topic.I could rattle off a list of what I do, but you’re not trying to please my Sir, lol!
Smooches,
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Thank you, Veruca. My only thing is, as much and Sir is strict, he’s definitely a daddy Dom. He knows that I used to have some severe self image issues years back and I’m not sure he would give me any feedback other than “you look great, you’re perfect just how you are, etc” in fear of setting me into that downward spiral again, if that makes sense?
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Yes, it makes sense. My opinion on this is that, with your past issues on body image, then you need to sit back and trust that your Sir has communicated all that he requires/desires from you and just roll with it. You have to trust that he is taking everything into account and has made his decisions based on what he would like and what is best for you. Again, if you think there should be more, then ask him for more.
Yes, all of our Sir’s want us to take care of ourselves, be healthy…and some Doms are stricter than others in this matter, because there might be health issues that we (subs here on submrs) are not fully aware of. On the other hand, maybe the Dom isn’t as strict because exercise and diet are already an intricate part of who they are as people and it doesn’t really need to be addressed and therefor is a mute point.
My Sir gives me very specific instructions on how I am to be for him for a scene or play (and they are never the same because they are based on his mood) and then he has things he likes for me to do on a regular/daily basis. He also has requirements for my hair style and color. I do not have any rules about exercise and diet at this time because my Sir does not see the need for any. Oh wait…that isn’t true…I am not allowed to exceed more than two adult beverages without his permission, so that he can play when ever he wants (my Sir will NOT play if I have had more than two)…But again, this is all for MY Sir…your Sir may be completely happy and satisfied with how you are taking care of yourself and preparing yourself for him. That should be something that you should to be content with and proud of yourself for…not try to add more, especially if it is not necessarily an issue for your Sir. He would/should let you know if he would like for you to do more than you already are.
Be happy! You are doing a great job!
Smooches!
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MMM Great share MM!…nice thoughts back V ,
I think we are all at different points in our lives ..and our Sirs of course desire, need different things from us. Warrant ; NEVER compare…SHARE !!
We are married 26+ so , I don’t need Sirs time or attention to remind me to stay healthy ! We both just DO IT ! Plus , Im a GIRLY girl I LOVE to dress !! But, for SURE if either of us notices some heath issues ….we would address them .I also for me ..being the BEST for your Sir and looking in the mirror saying HONESTLY to yourself your a 10 + is really different ! We are our worst enemy ! Stop wasting your time, energy life…beating yourself up !! EMBRACE what you have and LEARN to work it !!
I have no rules on my hair, fashion, or size from my Sir! I have rules on my actions, respect, doing, my honor and how I treat everyone I come into contact with …that is what is important to my Sir.
For me …Submission is not a shape,style,weight,size,color /length of hair, heels or flats, dress/jeans.. . I BELIEVE .. if you look at a women …her ACTIONS will show if she is a Submissive.
SUB-ON,
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Thank you ladies! I appreciate the input very much. I agree, looks don’t make a sub. I just always want to make sure I am what in a state that is most desirable to him. I change my looks quite often. My style (or lack thereof) is very.. interesting. It cannot be duplicated. And I know thats part of why Sir loves me. Just, being new to this I don’t know what’s common for most subs to do. I know each couples dynamic is different. Just wanted some ideas to see what I like and can maybe run past him.
Thanks again!
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