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Using Butt Plugs in Training
Hi all! My Sir desires to train my butt to be used by him. We have several different types of butt plugs, but the metal NJoy is the one I tolerate the best. For those of you that have done this type of training, how long have you worn a butt plug? He usually requests that I wear it 10 -12 hours at time. Is this what most of you have done or does anyone have any guidance on how to do this? I find it stimulating but by the end of 10 -12 hours I feel ready to take it out. He does not understand why I have this feeling, so I am curious if others have this feeling too.
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hello Lady Norah… Great question, i would have to say that 10-12 hours is way to long for training and your feeling is accurate. By the time you take it out you do not want anything near it. My sir only has me wear mine for an hour before we play. That is plenty of time to prepare you for playtime. If he wants to have you wear one throughout the week then an hour a day is sufficient if he is just wanting to have fun with you. My sir will have me take it to work for fun. Maybe you can bring this to him in Downtime. Good luck lady
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Hello LadyNorah I never did anal until we started D/s and Sir only made me start at 1 hour wearing a plug. Now Sir only makes me wear it a max of 3 hours. It is not healthy or wise to wear it longer than that, you will end up sore and inflamed from it. A plug is only used to get your muscles to relax and open before anal play. Wearing a plug that long does not do anything for anal play on stretching you to be ready for your Sir at anytime because your muscles go back to the norm if anal play isn’t done within a reasonable time after wearing it.
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Not to beat a dead horse, but I’m chiming in to say “me, too.” I can’t even imagine keeping it in that long!. I don’t go more than 3 hours. An hour is enough to relax the muscles and stimulate my interest. I need some coaxing to really want anal play – I tend to be a bit shy of it. I’ve also read that keeping it in that long is not healthy.
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Thank you everyone for your insight and guidance. I have shared this with my Sir and he thanks you for your insight and knowledge too, as he was unaware of some of the points you brought up. He has decided that he will not have me wear the butt plug for an extended time. He has used the butt plug to keep me stimulated and connected with him, but we will find other ways to do this. You ladies are awesome and I appreciate you all!!
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Hi Ladies,
My Sir has asked me to post this here for him.
Hello everyone,
I hope everyone is doing well!!
I read lk’s post about “All about Anal Play”. I found it to be very insightful and full of great information. I also realized that after reading lk’s post that lk thought a post about anal play would be very beneficial. With that said I agree, wholeheartedly!!
However, I wanted to write and share some perspective on how lady norah and I ended up with her wearing a butt plug for 10-12 hours. After reading lk’s post I found myself concerned about how others understood, what and how we were doing with a butt plug of 10-12 hours.
I started out having lady norah wearing a plug for an hour or two. I found lady norah to be quite stimulated after she had done so. I should elaborate that she shared that with me, as most of the time when she did wear one for an extended amount of time was when we were apart, while I was working away from home. We both found it to be another way to connect while I was gone. It was also fun to hear about her sensations when she would wear one for an hour or two. Afterwards I found this to be a good task and over time I increased her time of wearing a plug little by little. It was always the njoy plug. I read where some people with an njoy plug would wear one while out shopping, at work and even mowing the grass! This reading is where my thought of longer wearing a plug began.
For me it was all about the connection and the afterwards stimulation. I never in anyway desired to do anything harmful to her which is why I wanted to write and share this. I didn’t want there to be any misunderstanding with what I was asking her to do. I hope all of you know me enough from Las Vegas, that I wouldn’t do or ask lady norah to do something harmful. Asking a sub to do something harmful is not who I am or a good trait of a Dom in my belief. While each of us have a similar lifestyle our lifestyles can vary too. Having lady norah wear a njoy plug was solely a way to connect and was done without the knowledge that lady norah shared with me from her forum question and also without the knowledge from lk’s post.
When lady norah shared some of the responses to her post about “how long do you wear a plug” on submrs. I became concerned on what others may think even though they don’t have the rest of the story. lk’s post reignited those feelings of others not having the rest of the story. I wanted to share the rest of the story with all of you.
So with all of the knowledge I gained we haven’t even used a plug in a while. In part because a real good orgasm can really help in relaxation. A great tip from Mr. Fox. Let me tell you it DOES work!!
Thank you for reading and allowing me a few minutes of your time. Thank you for not judging me but for educating me.
My best,
Lord Seamus
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Lord Seamus,
What a wonderful post. YOU are EVER the Gentleman and anyone of us who met you KNOWS that. This was a great post from beginning to end with much learning and sharing! While it is not something I aspire to do, I do know that some folks do wear plugs for that length of time without issues. So don’t feel bad, this is all a “no judgement” zone. It all comes down to personal preference and comfort and what turns a person on…imho!
hugs to you both!
bliss
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